Wendy Weber Shares Ideas to Start Noticing Energy Around You | DFS 271

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Welcome to destined for success. I'm your

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host Jennifer Takagi and today we have a fun interview with

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windy Weber windy and I met on speakers play house which all

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this plug them it's every Thursday at 1030 Pacific, just

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you know, reach out, I'll give you the link you can join or you

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can google it speakers playhouse.com. But when me and I

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met there, and we had a great conversation about podcasting

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and getting our messages out, and I do energy healing, and

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Wendy does energy healing just differently because there are

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all kinds of modalities. They all work. They don't necessarily

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work for every person, we have to find what works for us. So

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when they welcome to the show, and tell us a little bit about

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yourself and what you have going on in the world. Well,

Wendy Weber: 00:00:49

thank you, Jennifer. First of all, I'm

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owned by two parents. It just what it is. And if you if you

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like my hair, we can thank lucky that Kanye is caught by Kanye.

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Anyway. He likes to be on my head and under my shirt. He's

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not with me today. So you can't you don't won't have that

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particular distraction. I'd like to do I'm a singer songwriter,

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live been doing music my whole life. And that is a form of

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energy. I didn't know that I knew nothing about energy.

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Nothing at all. And I didn't believe in it. There's a lot of

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people who don't believe in it, and it it still exists, whether

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you believe in it or not. There's a lot of things that

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exist. You can't see air until there's something in it. That or

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it smacks you, you can't see it. But eventually you can feel it

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and everybody feels the energy. They're just not aware of it.

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But I did the usual I went to high school I went to Camp went

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to music camp Interlochen couple summers. And I grew up I have a

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brother, my late brother had multiple disabilities. So

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special needs. Went to college. University of Wisconsin, so I'm

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a badger. And oh, I'm wearing red for that. I could have worn

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my my badge or T shirt, but I didn't. Okay. It's a little I

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thought I'd dressed up for Jennifer because she's such a

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classy lady. So, I got married right out of college. I didn't

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know what I wanted to do. What's my degree in? Espanol? Four

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years of ES Espanol of Spanish for user French. I snuck in a

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little bit of Hebrew in my last year, and then know what to do

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with it and got married right out of college got a job that I

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was a technical typist at Northwestern University for the

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mechanical engineering department. You want to know how

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well they probably typed today how professors, right? Just like

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doctors. Yeah, can't read it was a challenge. I have my first

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child in Chicago moved to Phoenix, Arizona, and I just

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passed my 45th anniversary here and I will sing my song about I

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wrote it for 35 years in Arizona. So I will update it now

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have a curiosity. So let me find it will be a Facebook Live. So

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if anybody wants to look me up, there'll be a Facebook Live. And

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I'm trying to get to that one today. Because it was last

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month, my anniversary. I had two more children here. My middle

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child has Down syndrome. And she's the one who really changed

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the directory of my life, or Tradex trajectory. Either way.

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When I left the house, and I was I wanted to be away from the

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disability world. I saw what it did to my parents what they had

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to do what they had to go through what I had to go through

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as a sibling as well. A lot I was destined to be right back in

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it when I had my daughter with Down syndrome. We did everything

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we could to help her that we could afford. And so money is an

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issue. It can be finding services waiting list today. I

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wouldn't want to have a child with the ability disabilities

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today for anything at all. We were in the sweet spot here in

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Arizona. She got really mostly the best of the best. And she

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had all these activities including horseback riding.

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She's a special Olympian equestrian gold medalist. She

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did gymnastics she went down river pant rampage, which was

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San Juan River. I facilitated all kinds of things for her to

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do. And now she has Alzheimer's so we're losing it. But she's

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still the catalyst for getting into energy doing professional

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music. She the first original song I wrote I've been writing

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parodies my whole life, but original song I wrote was for

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her bat mitzvah So this is part of intuition. This is part of

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listening, learning to listen, I was writing a poem about her

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because if you ever have been to a bar or bat mitzvah parents say

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nice things about their kids, right? It's required or somebody

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does anyway. And this tune would leave me alone. So I said, I

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write your song. And I haven't recorded it, but I will. So that

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was over 20 years ago. And I've been writing songs, original

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songs ever since I haven't given up on parodies. They're great

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fun. So she got me into that. And then they were going through

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something with her behavior. And she hasn't lived with me for 20

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years. But I still saw her all the time. We couldn't figure out

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what was going on. She was getting into trouble. She's

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causing other people to be late. And we didn't know why. Because

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people with Down syndrome usually cannot answer abstract

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questions such as why I didn't know what to do. Then the buck

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stopped with me at the end of the day, and I went to a woman's

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program and I met this lady Shavon Moran and I told her, I

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needed help with this. And she said, Well, I'm going to have a

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class in Scottsdale in about a month. And she invited me to go,

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and I hemmed and hawed and finally, last minute, I decided

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to go. And this really had to do with Leila. I did not believe in

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energy, I did not know what it was it didn't understand it. And

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and half a morning at this class, I felt the edge of the

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field. That's how I got into it. So I kept going. And it turns

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out that Leila is problem which really, she was egged on by

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somebody else to do this. So it had nothing to do with energy it

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had to do with influence. So the energy, I didn't know anything

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about anybody else's energy, I didn't know what Reiki was. We

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have Reiki Masters in our group who don't do Reiki anymore,

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because this is so powerful. But Reiki works for a lot of people.

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No, I'm never going to do it. I also can do org clearing and DNA

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activation. And that does work better in groups. But I've never

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seen anything as powerful as energy mastery. So that's why

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you do that. That's how I got into it. And it's all my

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daughter's fault. You can go blame her. Go see her she she

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wouldn't know who you are anyway.

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Well, since we haven't met that would make

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sense as well as her situation. So with this energy, so how do

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you use it? Do you use it for yourself? Do you have clients

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that you practice with?

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Both, we have to keep clear. And the clearer I

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am, the better, the more efficient I am I'm going to

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sneeze. So I have to stop and do that. The clearer I am of the

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negative energy, the better and more efficient I am at helping

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other people. And I do it from here, which is my office, excuse

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me, usually my office to anywhere in the world as long as

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we're at the same time. And preferably in English. Nothing

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stops energy, there is no lead container as for kryptonite,

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which is all made up anyway. But there is nothing that blocks

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energy except yourself. If somebody doesn't want to feel

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better, then it won't work. And I won't even try to help them.

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You have to want to feel better, you don't have to know what it

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is, is bothering you. If it's pain, it's pretty, it's pretty

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obvious where the pain is not necessarily the cause. And if

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you don't know the cause, it doesn't mean you shouldn't go to

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your doctor, I never tell anybody not to go and get

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checked out. Because it could be something that needs to be

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manipulated, like for chiropractor would do I go to

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the chiropractor. I get acupuncture, so I love massages.

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There's this there. That's another form of freeing up your

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energy and it helps a lot. I agree. Yeah, but if you have

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negative energy stuck in your body it's very difficult to get

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it out unless you have a practitioner or you are a

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practitioner, physically removing it. That's what I do.

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We have specific movements. And we talk our way through it

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because that's that's how we keep the intention and the

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attention on the person when I work on myself. I imagine a

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little mini me. I call Wendy in front of me and I do all the

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things I will do with everybody else. Do I like having somebody

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else work on me with energy mastery? You bet, it feels so

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good. I just check out so people don't even see what I do, I

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usually do it on the phone, like if I do it on Zoom, you're not

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going to see me because your eyes are going to be closed

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anyway, you're not going to understand what I do. It looks

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like the way the can thing we that's what people call it. But

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it's extremely deliberate, it's very deliberate. And we try to

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be as precise as we can. There's, you don't have to be so

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exact. But I can feel where there's congestion in your

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field. So I are brought out one of my, my fliers. I don't look

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at it so often. But what it does is the first phase is that clean

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energetically for clarity and freedom from negative

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circumstances. And the next phase is deep energetic release.

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So we then go work on chakras shot, what is the chakra chakra

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is an energy wheel, and energy center in your body. And we have

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different ones and they're associated with different things

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like money and pain, headache, different women's problems. I

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don't know about men's problems, I'd have never seen it. But I

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think we would probably do the same. A similar protocol, I'd

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have to check with my group, we do have a Facebook group for

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difficult questions like that one. And I just I work it does

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work on men, it really does. And that's where I really had a big

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proof about pain, working on a gentleman. We're also going to

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work on mental and emotional upset trauma, and this is much

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more involved. But it does work. We can go PTSD, we can work on

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that we can work on such emotional trauma, you don't even

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have to know what it is. But we'll get it out. We'll get it

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out. But that takes time. And you do have to do some work. If

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you're the client. You have to work with me on that part. But

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if you want to feel better,

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do you have a name for the for the practice

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that you do that? Yeah,

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energy mastery. ENERGYM a s t ry energy mastery

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was developed by Shavon Moran, who is still my coach. And she

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is amazing. And she keeps fine tuning this she put together the

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best of modalities from the Chinese and from the air from

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India. And then she's invented a few practices herself that we

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use. These are amazing. She said she's amazing, intuitive. She's

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also business expert, and she she's a scientist, she tests

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everything. So that's how that's why we keep perfecting what I do

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is great, but I need to go back to know what's what's new.

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What's the update? Well,

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thank you for loving right?

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Always everything does well the knowledge and I

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think the general energy of the planet may play a part in it and

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where there's so much negativity going on, we have to do

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something about that. So when I look at it and by the way, I

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also work with crystals it's a similar activity just with

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crystals which are more powerful. And I'm working on you

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with crystals you better have all your crystals off I won't

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have any crystals on that means no watch no glasses. If you're

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wearing diamond, you if you're wearing a ring, get it off.

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When you when you think about success, how

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does this tie in like so? The energy work and success and the

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success you've had in your life? How do you how do you bring

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those together?

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Who was it that said, the more people you help

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the more you make, the more benefit you get when when I work

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with somebody and we're finished, I feel better to

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there's a lightness because I'm also protecting myself

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energetically from other people's negative energy. And I

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can teach tools to protect you in between such as cutting your

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negative cords. Anybody sees me doing this usually as somebody

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is swearing, nothing collapses your energy field. We are

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perfect. You're a healthy energy field is 12 to 24 inches outside

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your body and nothing collapses that faster than using foul

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language. The F word is probably the worst but the all most of

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them. And so if you see me doing this, somebody's swearing.

Jennifer Takagi: 00:14:42

Okay, so for my audience, which is typically on

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a podcast when she says doing this, she's doing arms in front

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of her like she's having cords

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and cutting negative cords. So if you take

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your arm and you you swipe it in front of you, like you're

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cutting something If you can use your arms you can use I have my

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Hermione wand if I want to use that your savior lightsaber if

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you have one of those, but your arm is fine and you want to just

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cut the negative energy why is that? Most everybody is seeing

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some iteration of spider man. And spider man throws his Spidey

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web strands out to attach. Think of a negative energy strand just

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like the spider man that's comes from somebody, it could be from

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their thoughts. It could be from your thoughts attaching to you

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and messing with your any positive energy that you have.

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So you want to cut that you can't see them that there is

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real is anything else. Have you ever walked into a room and you

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fell off, or you get hit by something, I don't like it here.

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That's negative energy. You can probably cut your cords and go

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in there if you want to. If it's really bad, if you're really

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sensitive to it, it might be a good idea to leave and not go in

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there really mess with you. And if you're going into a

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networking event, how can you network effectively with a lot

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of negative energy unless you know how to protect yourself. So

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I have tools to help you with that. But it doesn't take the

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place of the actual cleansing. So when I when I for the

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listening audience, I'm actually moving my hands and saying

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certain words to cleanse the negative energy out of you feel

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for I don't even get to your chakras before I claim you feel

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there's no point that help

Jennifer Takagi: 00:17:01

so if somebody I have a lot of audience that

Jennifer Takagi: 00:17:04

came with me from my previous work, I've strictly leadership

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development and then they came along this ride for the to the

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wound with me. So if if somebody is brand new to this, and they

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think, Wow, this is this is a lot I don't even know where to

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start. Give us one thing that somebody who's new and curious,

Jennifer Takagi: 00:17:24

because I love curious people. If somebody is curious about

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energy, do you have one thing you can suggest that they can do

Jennifer Takagi: 00:17:32

to start recognizing the energy around them?

Wendy Weber: 00:17:37

Oh, I actually don't have one thing. There are

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classes and my friend and Gilbert done his classes to

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teach the basics. And I one day I'll be certified. I've been too

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busy to get certified. Right. I teach. I'm certified to practice

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in Friday.

Jennifer Takagi: 00:18:00

Like I love it. Okay, thanks, Winnie. So if you

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had one parting suggestion, recommendation or final thoughts

Jennifer Takagi: 00:18:10

for the audience, what could that possibly be? Manage

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your energy, or someone else's energy will

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manage yours?

Jennifer Takagi: 00:18:21

Oh my gosh. I'm sorry, I'm writing this down.

Jennifer Takagi: 00:18:28

All right. Someone else will managers. I'm very fortunate

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because I guess I just learned at a very early age not to take

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on other people's energy, but I really understand people who

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take it on and are they're greatly impacted. And again, I'm

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very fortunate because it pretty much just flows through me. So

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I'm I'm, I recognize how, how fortunate I am with this. So in

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the show notes, we're gonna have Wendy's email address, windy at

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windy weather music.com. And that's w e b e r, and she's also

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leaving her phone number if you want to send her a text message

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and find out more about what she does. Wendy, thank you so much

Jennifer Takagi: 00:19:06

for joining us today.

Wendy Weber: 00:19:08

Well, thank you for having me. I appreciate

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everything you do.

Jennifer Takagi: 00:19:15

Oh, well, thank you. I'm Jennifer Takagi and I

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look forward to connecting with you soon.