“AAAHHHGG! Why on earth did I think I could be a dad, and build a business on top of that!?! What was I thinking?!”
“I’m not sure I have what it takes to do this!”
“I don’t think I can keep it up much longer”
Many men who are both dad and entrepreneur are plagued by these thoughts and questions (which often come wrapped in guilt, resentment, and/or shame).
Most of the time this struggle is rooted in a poor concept of what a dad is ‘supposed’ to be. So we need to re-invent our concept of what it is to be ‘dad’, because being ‘dad’ isn't what it used to be. Most of us are stuck with the old instruction manual - if we have any manual at all.
Many of us are just faking it, hoping we don’t ruin our kids lives.
Lets walk together on the journey from being a ‘well-behaved’ dad who is doing what he thinks he’s supposed to and hoping its right, to becoming a ‘high performance’ dad who is clear on who he is, where he and his family are going and why. It’s an exciting and challenging process to be sure. And if you put in the work to being a ‘high performance’ dad, you’ll definitely become a Legendary Dad; one who’s legacy can never be taken away from his children and grandchildren. His legacy is a family that has all the resources they need to live the fullest and best life they can. That’s what makes him a family legend for generations!
I believe we all have what it takes to give our families everything they need from us - whether its physical, social, mental/emotional, or financial needs, I have learned that we are capable of so much more than we ever dared imagine and that thinking we don’t have what it takes is something we’ve learned - it’s an idea that is only true if you choose to accept it.
There are no participation trophies here. If you want the title, you’ll have to do the work. Being a legend doesn’t come easy, but it is absolutely worth the effort!
Dec. 29, 2022
Episode Summary In this episode Kevin explores his journey as it relates to the use of personal power in his marriage and as a Dad. He opens up about questions like: What is personal power?; Is it okay to use power in our fa…
Dec. 22, 2022
Episode Summary In this “blind-date” episode Amy shares how leadership in the family is part of family planning; how she shifted her perspective of Motherhood to being a privilege; and reveals the answer to the question, doe…
Dec. 15, 2022
Episode Summary This week Kevin takes us on an energetic journey of parenting where you can explore with him; the idea of being intentional about how we use our energy; ways we might direct the family energy levels; how tran…
Dec. 8, 2022
Episode Summary How do we define an idea like ‘honour’? It may seem clear, but when we look into it, maybe there’s more to it than we realize. In this episode Kevin explore questions around how honour impacts family, and soc…
Nov. 30, 2022
Episode Summary This week we make a foray into multi-generational parenting! Our conversation ranges from; dealing with anger; different home different rules; get what you need outside your family; Mary has helped her family…
Nov. 23, 2022
Episode Summary In this deep dive into mindset, the creative power of our minds and the nature of reality, Shiraz and Kevin explore; why his car broke down the hidden pride that drives parents how to create a different futur…
Nov. 16, 2022
Episode Summary In this episode Kevin looks into the skills of influence, an essential part of life and especially of raising kids well. Be ready to take notes as he shares central elements of; teaching others how to think p…