Pleasure over Pressure: The Divine Feminine Way with Glenda Lane | DFS 281

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ready. Okay. Okay, awesome. Let's do it. Welcome to destined

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for success. I'm your host Jennifer Takagi and it is one of

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my favorite days of the year. It is PATA Palooza Day, a day where

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I get to meet a lot of amazing podcasters with messages we all

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want and need to hear. My next guest I can't wait to hear this

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story is Glenda lane, freedom from within. And she made a big

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pivot and her business just like I did. Welcome to the show.

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Glenda Oh,

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thanks so much, Jennifer, thanks for having me.

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Tell me your journey I can't wait to hear.

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Sure.

Glenda Lane: 00:00:48

Well, I I'll start by saying that I was a very I'd

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say a bit of an achievement junkie. Always, all the way,

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like way back to what I can remember in school straight A

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student, you know, top of the class and, and university

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continuing that when I took my physical therapy degree, and it

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was something that I was doing, I now know, to try and prove my

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worth. So it was this, you know, it wasn't as a result of me just

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it was my heart's desire, it was more about me not feeling enough

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and that I was, you know, trying to push myself and put pressure

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on myself to not only do everything but get it all right.

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So anyone can relate to that was my story. And what started

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happening was, in particularly in university, I started to

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experience things cropping up in my body. So I was diagnosed with

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a hormone imbalance. I had knee surgery. One year, when I was in

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school, I had mono. Another year, I injured a disc in my low

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back, and I had chronic and then that was the start of chronic

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neck and back pain for me. And then digestive issues started to

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come up. And then in my early 30s, I was diagnosed with my

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first melanoma of which I've now had six. And and I've also

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experienced three miscarriages and, and burnout. So I now know

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that those were all ways that my soul was trying to get my

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attention through my body to say, Glenda, what you are doing

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is not aligned for you. In other words, the way that you are the

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pressure you and stress that you are putting on yourself is is

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not your way, it's actually goes very against my true nature and

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my true feminine nature. And because, you know, I mean,

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everything looked great on paper in my life, I had traveled

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overseas with sports teams, I'm Canadian, so the sports teams.

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For our summer University, I had games and Turkey and Beijing and

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I got all my credentials and physio and, you know, had a

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house and everything looked really good on paper. And then

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when I was about 30, well 33 My mum was diagnosed with terminal

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pancreatic cancer. And that was like a bomb went off in my life.

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Because it was I've never really experienced any I'll call it

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trauma of that nature in my life before. And, and so she passed

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about just under three months after her diagnosis, and I had

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gone home to take care of her. And right after she passed,

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there was a moment where I just kind of was taking a breath and

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going I really felt like something was missing. Like I

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felt like even though everything looked good on paper that

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something was missing in my life. And I now know that I was

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feeling disconnected from my soul from my intuition. And from

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my body. I was like a head walking around on a stick. I was

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very much a mental you know, mentalized everything. You know,

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I'm bright. So that was I that was one of my superpowers I

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tried to be, again, get everything right. And so in

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doing so, and putting that pressure on myself, I was very

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disconnected from my body. And so her passing was really the

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beginning of my, my spiritual journey. I'll tell you this

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little tidbit. i When I moved back to Edmonton after my mom

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had passed away There was a workshop that I saw just an

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advertisement in a magazine, a local one. And it was for a half

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day workshop on how to bend spoons with energy. And I'm

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I'm in where do we do that?

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Right very random very leg out of my realm as a

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very science minded gal, very show me the proof, you know,

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very black and white. And, but for some reason that called to

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me and long story short, I went to a woman who was teaching it

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was a psychic intuitive that I ended up training with for two

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years, and never thinking I would do this work. But more it

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was more a personal journey. For me, it was more a, I just wanted

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to feel close to my mom still, you know, like I didn't, I

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didn't have that. I never had a religious upbringing, spiritual

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upbringing, and there's just this part of me that's like, you

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know, I, I just want to be able to still be in connection with

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her. And it was just an amazing, amazing process. And anyway,

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that kind of the open opened the door for me. And then it led me

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down a path of taking a year long energetics coaching

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program. So learning how to read energy, and move energy blocks

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and become a coach in that, which led to another year long

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program called Magic School. So a Mystery School of really going

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even deeper. And then another one that was about learning how

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to go direct with consciousness. So it just, it was like, it

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opened the doorway for me, and it was like, This is my passion.

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This is my jam. And in that journey, I reconnected with my

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body, I came to understand just how much I feel, and just how

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intuitive I am, as we all are, but it's just whether we're open

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right to, to receiving that and, and it did is started my my

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practice of being an intuitive energy guide, energetics coach

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for the last 12 years. So in addition to being a physio I

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wear two hats and I, you know, you can't, not I, I can't

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separate out the two, they definitely overlap, I bring both

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areas into into the other so. And then about five years ago, I

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began to speak light language. And so that's just it's been,

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like came out of the blue for me. And so this, I call myself a

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grounded Whoo. So I'm very Whoo, and also feet on the ground,

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like, you know, here having this human experience. And let's

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bring the 5g consciousness down and through into this lifetime

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and make the world a better place. So. So that's, that's

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been my journey. So far. Oh, my

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gosh. So it's so interesting. You say that,

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because I'm a very grounded person, very religious. I was

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born on a Monday, my first time in church was the next Sunday.

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So I've always believed, but I fortunately was raised in a very

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liberal Christian church. So open to other ideas, other

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possibilities. One day, my dad and I were having a pretty deep

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conversation, and he goes, Well, what if they're right, like, how

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can we say no, because what if they're right? And it was like,

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Oh, yeah. Oh, what if they are. And I ended up at a conference

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or at a mastermind meeting, a woman who was a spiritual

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healer, didn't know what it was. She is a psychic medium. And my

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parents had died at that point. 11 years before, and my mom had

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had a stroke 11 years before she passed away. So we had 11 years

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where you never knew how grounded the conversation was

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with her because she could come up with stuff from left field

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because the stroke was the size of a grapefruit wiped out the

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right side of her brain. So she had been a little bit off for 11

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years, and then she had been gone 11 years. So you have Angel

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numbers of 11 and 11. And you add them up, it's 22. And

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apparently, that's a whole nother realm of Angel numbers.

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And so the messages that came down from her through the

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medium, were so comforting and so wonderful to me. And later,

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we talked to my dad, my parents died 12 days apart. And yeah, it

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was it was a lot. But if anybody had ever told me like one of my

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girlfriends from high school said of all the people we would

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have picked from Edmond high school to go into this type

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energy work. Like you're the last one. It was like, oh, so I

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do not speak with people who have passed on. Although I'm

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told I could very easily I just chosen to step into that yet. I

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don't know if I will or not, but it's interesting that we've had

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very similar experiences with not expecting it now. wrote down

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grounded, whoo, because that will totally work with me. And

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one time at work I had, what was diagnosed as an inflamed nerve

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in my neck. I had missed over two weeks of work. I couldn't

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sleep because I was in so much pain. I had been to the

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chiropractor, I have taken steroids. I was put in the

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hospital and they shot numbing stuff into my neck, I got zero

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relief. And one of my sisters said, Will you go to this person

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and get a massage? And I said, Yes, I'll do anything. And this

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woman, like, never actually touched me. Like, she was just

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above me. And then she would move her hand away, like, I can

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feel like almost the air move. And she'd shake her hand and

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snap her finger. And after a few rounds of this, I was like, why

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are you snapping your finger and she said, You have a big knot

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under your left shoulder blade. And I'm pulling it out, but I

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don't want the energy in me. So I'm snapping my finger to get

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rid of it. And I thought, you're just weird. And this is this is,

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this is stupid. I don't even know why I'm here. And then she

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very gently rubbed all these oils on me. And then she held

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her hands under my face. It was like, breathed this in

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aromatherapy. And she got all rubbed into my hair. It was a

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greasy mess. And when she finished, she said, go home and

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take a nap and don't shower before tomorrow, let these oils

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soak in. And I was like, Yeah, okay, whatever. And I went to

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get off the table, and I could. And then I got dressed, I went

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home I laid down, I slept for four solid hours, which I hadn't

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slept that long in three weeks at this point. And I now know, I

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wish I could find her. I've tried to find her. i She was

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quite a bit older than me. And I wonder if she's passed away. But

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like, I'm pretty sure she was probably doing Reiki and

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probably doing some other energy healing, but she just called

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herself a massage therapist. Right. But I think there was

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more happening there.

Glenda Lane: 00:12:06

There's more going on? Yes. Absolutely. She was

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doing energy work on you. She

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was so the energy work that you do. Um, do

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you do this virtually in person? A combo plan? Like what how do

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you how do you work with people? How do you help? How do you help

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people like me? Yeah,

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well, so I mean, I do have two sets of clients, I

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have my physical therapy clients that I'm seeing in person at the

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clinic, and then I have my my intuitive energy coaching

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clients. So those clients I'm working with virtually, usually

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over zoom, and you know, I just have this ability to tune into

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their their energy, it doesn't matter where you are, you don't

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actually have to be in person, right. And to really get to the

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energetic root of something. So something is showing up for you

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whether it's something in your life externally or showing up in

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your body, there's always an energetic route to it, because

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everything's energy. And so for me, that's my, it's like, that's

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what we get curious about, let's get to the root of what is

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creating the symptoms in your body, or what is creating what's

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showing up in your life. And so it's internal work, you know,

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and that's why you know, my business is freedom from within

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is because we go, we go in and we use a use, what is going on

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in their life, what is coming up for them, what they are bumping

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up against, what they are being triggered by whatever it is to

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then take them into their own bodies. So I assist them, I

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don't do the work on them. I fully believe we all have the

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power to heal ourselves, we just need to be shown the way. And so

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for me, it's helped guiding them through the body, and what is

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showing up in the body in terms of emotions, and physical

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sensations, and really actually feeling because so many of us

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have learned to numb or have been completely overwhelmed by

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emotions that we don't want to go there. We don't want to feel

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our emotions, we're afraid of them. We're afraid there. We're

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going to become them. We have judgment about them. We have

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judgment about ourselves for feeling them. But emotions are

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just energies, they're just at vibrating at different

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frequencies. And the ones that feel uncomfortable, such as

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shame and guilt and anger, they're just lower frequency,

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emotions, whereas love and joy and gratitude, they feel good

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because they're higher frequency. So there's actually

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no good or bad, there's just high and low frequency. And when

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we can learn to befriend our emotions and learn how to feel

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fully, how to be with them, so that they can literally move

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through our bodies and not stay stuck in our tissues where they

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wreak havoc and they cause dysfunction and disease. And so

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that's a big part of what I do. And it's a process called

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Emotional alchemy where not only do we We go into the body and

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feel this and let it move through. But then let's get to

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the root. Why is that emotion there? You know, why are you

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feeling this way? What are you believing? Is it linked to

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something in your past. And so really, that's a very

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intuitively led process at that point as to where I helped guide

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them. So that they can come to understand, because the reason

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that we feel these emotions is because we're believing

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something that is not true, usually about ourselves, but

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also about life itself, as we can get to the deeper truth that

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is, actually underneath all of that, that is, what shifts, not

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only how you feel, but how you then see yourself and how you

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see life. And that's which that's paradigm shifting. And so

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for me, it's about that, that causes true lasting change,

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versus just trying to shift something at a mind level, or

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just to feel your emotions, it's only part of the process, you

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know, it's we're whole beings. And so this is a whole being

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process that I, that I take my clients through, and I teach

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them how to do it on their own. And of course, it takes

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practice, right to become good at it. But really, that has been

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the difference for me, because I used to be so up in my head

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thinking it's now let's go down in your body and feel because

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that is where your emotions are just trying to get your

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attention. They're basically they're saying to you, Hey, look

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over here. Something wants to be known. There's some clarity here

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that wants to be known. There's a change that wants to be made.

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There's more love available for you. On the other side of this

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emotion, there's more freedom available, there's more truth.

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And so for me, emotions are a doorway or like a portal an

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entryway for us to move through to be able to get to the gold on

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the other side. And that's the alchemy, of course. So that's,

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and that has just been life changing, not only for me, for

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my clients, and you know, we're not taught how to deal with our

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emotions. We're not taught how to feel, boy, if this was

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something we could teach all our kids in school, right from the

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get go like this would be, it would be life changing, right?

Jennifer Takagi: 00:17:12

Oh my gosh. And we can you know, do it one

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person or one group of people if we're doing something from the

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stage at a time. So as we're wrapping up our time together,

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how do people get ahold of you? What's the best way to reach

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you?

Glenda Lane: 00:17:27

Yeah, well, I am. I'm on Instagram. So I my handle

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is Glenda Lane freedom guide. So you can always come play with me

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there. I have a Facebook group on on in on Facebook called

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freedom to love you. And you just have to search that up. It

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is a private group for women and but you just have to request to

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join. And I do have a freebie for everyone. This is something

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that I oh gosh, it's called freedom. No, it's called Seven

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Steps to freedom from pressure. Okay, so these are some of the

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steps that I took that freed myself from this pressure that I

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was putting on myself for so long, to have more ease to have

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more grace to have more enjoyment to have more

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number, the number seven steps. And then that you can grab a

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hold of that and start putting some of those steps into

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practice for yourself. But yeah, I would absolutely love to

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connect. I'm also at Glenda Glenda lane.ca for email, just

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want to reach out and connect that way.

Jennifer Takagi: 00:18:43

Oh my gosh, thank you. This has been such a

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great conversation. We will drop all the links in the show notes

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so that if you didn't get them written down, you can click on

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the show notes of this episode. And you can get that

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information. Glinda thank you so much for sharing your wisdom and

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your journey with us. And thank you for being so kind when I had

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no storage on my computer to try to record our session because

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these weird things happen sometimes. Absolutely.

Glenda Lane: 00:19:12

Thank you so much for having me.

Jennifer Takagi: 00:19:13

All right. I'm Jennifer Takagi and I look

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forward to connecting with you soon.