How to Jumpstart Resetting Your Subconscious | DFS 267

Welcome to destined for success. I'm your

host Jennifer Takagi and today we're going to talk about how to

jumpstart the resetting of your subconscious how to jumpstart

it. Let's keep moving forward. Right. So in the last episode,

we had the pleasure of hearing from Susan Butler. And she is a

financial expert and talked about our money blocks are many

beliefs. So how can you jumpstart it? The last episode,

we talked about how we need to shift our subconscious. Because

it's driving the boat, or the bus or the ship or whatever it

is in charge, your subconscious mind is in charge, you wake up

and you say, today, I'm going to eat healthy food, and you get

all the healthy food and you get it all out there and you're

gonna eat healthy food today. And then you have a thought

about a candy bar. And then you dig through the cabinet and you

find the candy bar. And then you feel really bad because you were

adamant that you weren't going to eat a candy bar today. It's

because your subconscious is driving the bus, it is in

charge, you've got this five year old driving the bus of your

life. Somebody said that who said that? I don't know. But it

was really good. It was a good visual. You're a little kid and

you grow up. But we still have that five year old driving the

bus, which is our subconscious and our life. One way to reset

your subconscious is through affirmations and affirmations

really work. So if you have an affirmation that really is in

line with what you want on a conscious level, you can record

it on your phone, and listen to it multiple times through today

to start reprogramming your subconscious. There is an app

called Think app, I am not affiliated with them in any way.

However, you can record up to three affirmations for free. And

then it'll put you can put it on a loop and listen to it again.

And again. It's very helpful. It is very helpful. But if you've

got $12 in your bank account, and your affirmation is I'm a

multimillionaire. Do you think there can be a disconnect

between the affirmation you're trying to program in and what

your whole reality has always been? I'm going to say yes, I'm

going to say yes, you can disagree. And that's okay. But

I'm going to say sometimes the LEAP needs to be a little

smaller initially. So if you only have $12 in the bank, and

you want a million dollars in the bank, maybe your affirmation

could be something along the lines of Money comes to me

easily and frequently. Because part of our money stories, often

I got to work hard for my money, you got to do the work to get

the result. So we have all these ideas about how hard it is. So

maybe instead of focusing on $1 amount, we focus on the fact

that it can be easier to make money. And sometimes money just

comes to you. Maybe you have a product or a service that can be

offered. Just on repeat. You don't have to do anything, you

put it out there and people want it and they buy it. So be clear

when you make your affirmations that number one is something you

really want because I'm just going to tell you, I put an

affirmation before that somebody else said I wanted and I thought

they were right. And they were not. So make sure that

affirmation is something you truly want. Then make it

something that you can believe if it is completely

unbelievable. Your subconscious is going to know. It knows the

truth. It knows Yeah, you kind of want that million dollars.

But yes, why you know, then you can get it ha ha ha and then it

knows there's a disconnect the universe knows, you know, it's

never going to fall into alignment. Make it reasonable,

make it a stretch, of course. But don't go from $12 in the

bank to a million dollars. You might go $12 in the bank to

consistently earning $3,000 a month that might feel good, real

and true to you. And you might be able to make that happen very

quickly. Very quickly. So what all is standing in the way of

you rewriting your money story and getting what you want, what

you deserve and what you're destined to have What is

standing in the way? Well, my listener, I submit to you, it's

your emotions around the thing. Whatever the thing is for you,

and we all have our own things of what is the thing for you?

What is it? Is it that you don't think you deserve a million

dollars? Is it that you don't think you can ever work long

enough or hard enough to make a million dollars? I heard someone

say the other day, and it kind of cracked me up. But I didn't

say anything because I didn't want to be ugly. And I didn't

want to get in the middle of something I didn't need to be in

the middle of because I'm trying to stay in my lane. I'm trying.

But they said I would never want to be a millionaire because they

have all kinds of problems. Do you think that's their money

story? Why would a million a millionaire have more problems

than I have? Maybe they have different problems? Maybe they

have problems? I don't know really how to solve right this

minute. But do they really have more problems? Is that true?

That questioning right there is key to you. unfolding, revealing

examining what is true for you. Is that story true. My

grandfather always told my mom, you will always have a house

payment in a car payment. That's the way of the world you need to

be used to it. Well, my mother decided she didn't want to

always have a house payment or a car payment. And no matter how

little money my mom and dad had when they started out, they got

married at 17 and 19. Maybe it was 16 and 18. Anyway, they were

very young. And every payday, my mom would send extra on the car

payment. No matter what it was, she would pay all the bills and

whatever was left that last little bit after she went to the

grocery store went to the car. Now my parents got loans for

most of the cars, they bought most of my life until I became

an adult and then they had enough money to just pay cash.

But their cars were paid off very quickly. If it was a three

year note, it was paid off probably in two or less. Back in

the day, you didn't get you know, 568 10 year car loans,

they were much less because the cars cost less. My mother

absolutely rejected her father's story that you always had to

have a car payment. And once she got that under control, and paid

off cars very quickly so that car payments, were really never

a thing for them anymore. She started working on paying off

the house. And I think I was either 15 or 16. So they would

have been married 2829 years. And they had their first house

paid off. And considering my mom was mostly a stay at home mom

and my dad worked full time. And they raised four children. That

is saying something. There are people who die with mortgages

still in place. But my mom made a very conscious effort that she

wasn't going to live in the story her father tried to put

upon her. Now was he trying to be mean, I don't know. Maybe

maybe not. I mean, I knew him. But you know, I was a kid. I

don't know what the intent was there. I don't know. Maybe he

was just trying to explain to her the way the world worked. I

don't think he was trying to kill her dreams. But he could

have been who knows? I don't know. Nobody's gonna tell me

that she decided she didn't want that story. What story did you

grow up with? Have you been living that you want no longer

to be true for you? I was talking to a group of gals at

our little lake place. And everybody had a lot of credit

card debt. And this one was like, Oh yeah, I've credit card

debt. I don't matter. It don't matter to me. It's fine. And

I've not had heart palpitations because like credit card debt is

not a thing for me. I don't want it. I don't want credit card

debt. But that's the thing for me. That's my story. You use a

credit card for temporary money and you pay it off. That's my

story around credit cards. You need to decide what your stories

are. around money

around debt. And I just heard recently I was at an event. And

the word mortgage is more is death in Latin. And the gauge

part mortgage is like can't remember. But anyway, it's like

a mortgage is tying you to death. And that sparked a whole

conversation. I think mortgages are wonderful, why I worked for

the Department of Housing and Urban Development. And so I

understand the background, the history in America anyway, at

the benefits of mortgage, people wouldn't own homes without them.

Most of us don't have three or $400,000 laying around that we

can just pay cash for a house, some people do, not all of us

do. So a mortgage allows us to get in a house now, can you do

something to pay off the mortgage quicker? Yes. Do you

know what you can do? Get a 30 year mortgage, make one extra

mortgage payment per year and you'll pay the house off seven

years earlier, seven, one house payment a year. There, poof, my

work is done here. People. You don't have to have a mortgage

for ever. It's a choice. Nobody's forcing you into this

choice. The other thing that happens is we have emotions

around this stuff. And if we are heavily emotionally charged

around the topic of money, their topic of debt in the case of

several people I was talking to recently around mortgages, those

emotions can be holding you back, they can be getting in the

way they can be impacting the choices you make. Well, guess

what, folks, that's where I come in. That's where I come in. I'm

a certified Emotion Code practitioner. And I can help

quickly and easily identify the trapped emotion around abundance

around money blocks, quickly and easily. And together, we can

clear it out quickly, easily and immediately. And you can see

shifts in your life in a matter of days. It's miraculous. It's

wonderful. I love it. I often refer to it as my magic quirk

because it's so phenomenal. Go to the shownotes click the link

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