Episodes
Aug. 3, 2023
What Does Doing Your Best Mean
In this episode John and Kelly talk about the concept of doing your best. In this episode you learn that when John was 40 years old, he started focusing on doing his best because he saw that was the only thing he really contr...
July 27, 2023
This Won’t Work on Me (Encore)
When people are introduced to a new strategy to up their success, oftentimes they think it won’t work on them, and for good reason. Nothing to that point has really worked. So why should they believe the new thing is going to...
July 20, 2023
How To Have A Great Romantic Relationship (Encore)
In this episode John and Kelly talk about how to have a great romantic relationship by rewiring your autopilot. So the right actions happen automatically without thinking. During this podcast they talk about some key behavior...
July 13, 2023
Gaining More Time - A Better Daily And Weekly To Do System (Encore)
In this episode John and Kelly talk about how important it is to be organized if you’re a high achiever. John and Kelly have developed an organizational system (daily to do form and weekly to do form) that they think is great...
July 6, 2023
The $5 Million Secret – How to Rewire Your Autopilot (Encore)
In this episode, let's revisit the episode, "The $5 Million Secret – How to Rewire Your Autopilot". Do you think you can change your outcomes in life and success with just 12 minutes a day? John and Kelly are here to tell you...
June 29, 2023
Your Self Talk Drives Your Emotions Which Drive Your Actions
In this episode John and Kelly talk about the impact of self talk. John recently got back from visiting in person with the mental coach for the USC football team. His name is Tim Kight. He’s probably the top sports psycholog...
June 22, 2023
How The Human Mind Works
In this episode, John and Kelly talk about how the human mind works. John recently got back from visiting in person with the mental coach for the USC football team. His name is Tim Kight. He’s probably the top sports psycholo...
June 15, 2023
Your Inner World Determines Your Outer World
In this episode, John and Kelly talk about how a person’s inner world determines their outer world. This topic was inspired by John listening to Tony Robbins on the impact theory podcast. In this episode John mentions that yo...
June 8, 2023
How To Have A Great Marriage
In this episode John talked about how to have a great marriage. The Einstein of marriage in the United States is John and Julie Gottman. Based on their extensive research, they truly are the top in their field of marriage and...
June 1, 2023
Stories We Tell Ourselves – Impact Our Behaviors
In this episode John and Kelly talk about the stories we tell ourselves impact our behaviors. These stories are always playing in the background in the subconscious mind. And they drive our behaviors as well as our fears. Oft...
May 25, 2023
The Movie ‘Book Club’ – The Perils Of Aging
In this episode John talked about recently watching the movie “The Book Club”. It stars Jane Fonda, Candace Bergen, Diane Keaton and Mary Steembergen. It’s about four women who are in their 60s and 70s. The romantic and sexua...
May 18, 2023
Human Nature – We Are Not Wired For Success
In this episode John and Kelly talk about human nature. How humans are wired for survival, not for success. And that plays out regarding the negatives in human nature. We tend to be self focused, we tend to be reactive. As hu...
May 11, 2023
You Must Have An “Intelligent Plan” For Your Life
In this episode John and Kelly talk the importance of having an intelligent plan for your life. John talked about going out to LA to see his stepson who is a musician. He is struggling to have an intelligent plan for his life...
May 4, 2023
The Benefits Of Aging
In this episode John and Kelly talk about the benefits of aging. As Kelly is about to turn 50 in a couple months, she has spent a lot of time thinking about aging. And she really likes the wisdom that comes from aging. The in...
April 27, 2023
Being A Conduit Of Learning – A System
In this episode John and Kelly talk about the importance of having a “system” for growing. A weekly system that is both consistent as well as strategic relative to what you want to accomplish. When you have such a system, you...
April 20, 2023
How Do You Answer “How Are You Doing”?
In this episode John and Kelly talk about how you answer the daily question “how are you doing “. It has a huge impact on how you influence others as well as how you influence yourself. Kelly says that when she is asked that ...
April 13, 2023
PERSPECTIVE – How To Get It On Demand
In this episode John and Kelly talk about the importance of having perspective in life. John gives the example regarding the evolution over the last three years of think it be it. Initially he and Kelly thought think it be it...
April 6, 2023
Morning Routine
In this episode John and Kelly talk about the importance of one’s morning routine. In fact, John says that a person’s morning routine will determine their success in life. That one thing more than anything else. And he talks ...
March 30, 2023
Growth
In this episode John and Kelly talk about growing intellectually. And how important it is to make your personal growth both consistent (every week) as well as strategic relative to what you want to accomplish. Kelly describes...
March 16, 2023
Pivotal Moments Where Your Trajectory Changed – The Lessons Learned
In this episode John and Kelly talk about moments in their life where it changed their trajectory. Kelly talks about when she first became an entrepreneur in the employment field. What drove her to make the leap. And Kelly ta...
March 9, 2023
Influence – Influencing Other People, Influencing Yourself
In this episode John and Kelly talk about how we are all in the influence business. And influence has two components to it. First, influencing yourself. That means getting yourself to do the key habits required to be successf...
March 2, 2023
Gaining More Time - A Better Daily And Weekly To Do System
In this episode John and Kelly talk about how important it is to be organized if you’re a high achiever. John and Kelly have developed an organizational system (daily to do form and weekly to do form) that they think is great...
Feb. 23, 2023
Find The Emotional Hook – The Key To Marketing
In this episode John and Kelly talk about how important it is in marketing to identify the emotional hook with your customers. This is absolutely the most important thing you must do in marketing. Everything flows from there....
Feb. 16, 2023
Seek To Understand Instead Of Trying To Be Understood
In this episode John and Kelly talk about the idea of seeking to understand before you try to be understood. John mentions that this is one of the seven habits of highly successful people. He recently read that book again and...