400. People Pleasing: How to Stop (Micro) Lying & Stand in Your Truth

Are you lying to yourself?  

You might not think so, but if you’ve ever responded to a question with “I’m fine” …we all know you’re anything BUT “fine”. 

People-pleasing and "micro-lying" to yourself and others has long been a socially acceptable way for women in particular, to be accommodating and agreeable.   

But when we lie to ourselves, even with the best of intentions, what we’re really doing to smothering our truth. 

We do it to please others, we do it to protect ourselves, we do it out of fear of judgment or to avoid conflict…we do it when we don’t feel safe to actually BE and SPEAK as our authentic selves.  

The best leaders, the women who are changing the world and making bold moves,  are the ones who are working in alignment with THEIR TRUTH. 

In this episode, Betsy unpacks the insidious and highly damaging habit of people-pleasing and micro-lying. 

Tune in as she breaks down where and how you may be lying to yourself, how to question your old stories, and what you can do to stand in your truth: 

• Where are you lying to yourself?
• Lying and micro lies…who it really hurts. 
• How to step into integrity with yourself.
• Why you’re not “fine”.
• What are you willing to put up with to not “rock the boat”? 
• Betsy’s dream job…that almost killed her. 
• Lifting the weight of judgement off your shoulders.
• Misalignment causing women to close their businesses.
• Coming back to your truth and LIVING IT. 
• Corporate America has creating a language of passive aggressive “sugar coating”.
• QUESTION your old stories; Stand in your TRUTH. 

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