Episodes

Dec. 9, 2021

Turning You Mess into your Message with abuse survivor and victim advocate, Desi Garcia

This week in the diner I had a thoughtful and vulnerable conversation with Survivor and CEO of Candle In A Dark Room, Desi Garcia. Desi shared her gripping and heart-wrenching story of surviving childhood physical and sexua…
Dec. 2, 2021

The Juxtaposition of Forgiveness and Discipline with high energy powerhouse entertainer, Ernee Peppers

You can skip today’s cup of coffee because today’s guest – Ernee Peppers – has enough energy for all of us. Ernie has an electric and contagious personality and will inspire you to drop your baggage and step into your badas…
Nov. 25, 2021

What Continuing to Believe in Yourself Looks Life with speaker and entrepreneur Jake Kelfer

Today we’re kickin’ it in the Diner with your new friend and mine, Jake Kelfer. He’s an incredible entrepreneur who shared story after story about how he would bet on himself and keep pushing and trusting his ideas until the…
Nov. 18, 2021

Do You Keep Promises with Yourself? With Hall of Fame Speaker and Entertainer, Jason Hewlett

Today in the booth, Jason Hewlett is coming in hot and ordering up a Moons Over My Hammy and dishing out advice that’s good for the soul. We talked about body image and being comfortable in our own skin, ways to discover our…
Nov. 11, 2021

Be Ready For Your Story to Change Someone’s Life with Big Bang Theory Actor, Alessandra Torresani

Sliding into the diner this week is actor, Alessandra Torresani. You’ve seen her on Big Bang Theory, American Horror Story, and most recently the movie, Women is Losers. She and I kicked things off by disclosing our first on…
Nov. 4, 2021

Living a Life Where You Need to Pinch Yourself with Stu Massengill

This week in the diner I hung out with my man, Stu Massengill. What I appreciate about Stu is that he is so dedicated to looking for what’s next and building his legacy, but he’s also so in tune with the present moment and s…
Oct. 28, 2021

What Does it Mean to Show Up for Someone? with CEO Ercole Perrone

In the booth with me this week is the one and only Ercole Perrone (say it with a thick Italian accent or you’re doing this glorious name (and man) a disservice). This conversation was so good – it centered around the theme o…
Oct. 21, 2021

"Our Happy Divorce" Authors, Nikki DeBartolo and Benjamin Heldfond

"Our Happy Divorce" authors, Nikki DeBartolo and Benjamin Heldfond slid into the diner booth with me this week. Divorce is never easy but these two have figured out a way to make it work for their son Asher. We started our c…
Oct. 14, 2021

Rewrite the Definition of Success with Washington Post Best Selling Author Laura Gassner Otting AKA LGO

Buckle up, y’all because this episode is jam-packed with nuggets of wisdom that will stick with you long after listening. Today I kicked it in the booth with bestselling author, socially conscious entrepreneur, and speaker L…
Oct. 7, 2021

What Living in China for 6 years and Leaving Your Dream Job Taught Life Coach, Geneviève Pépin

I don’t even know if there are diners in the Canary Islands, but I do know that this week’s guest, Geneviève Pépin, slid into this diner all the way from off the coast of Morocco. Geneviève and I started off discussing the m…
Sept. 30, 2021

The Pursuit of Truth with Emmy-Nominated Reporter and Anchor, Joe Mauceri

Longtime friend and Emmy-nominated anchor and reporter, Joe Mauceri, slid into a Brooklyn diner booth with me for this episode! Joe and I talked about a few childhood memories and what kind of burger you’re allowed to order …
Sept. 23, 2021

How to Make Conversations Less Awkward with Networking Strategist and Speaker, Tollisha Joseph

This week in the booth is networking expert and Twix connoisseur, Tollisha Joseph. We spent our time talking about how to form relationships, how to stand out in a room full of people, and how to get out of our own way. We t…
Sept. 16, 2021

Gay Dad Life and Storytelling-time with Mike Ganino

In the booth with me this week is the storytelling, improv-loving, eggs benedict-hating, Mike Ganino. He’s lived 79 lives, and because he’s an efficient storyteller we got to hear about most of them. We talked about everythi…
Sept. 2, 2021

Why Women Need Women with Women’s Empowerment Speaker (and my wife!) Tina VanSteenbergen

It’s Diner Talks with James’ first birthday! To celebrate Tina VanSteenbergen, my badass wife, slid back into the diner booth with me! Tina is a professional women’s empowerment speaker and runs her own women’s conference ca…
Aug. 26, 2021

Women, Use Your Voice! with the Enigmatic Emcee and Potent Professional Speaker, Quinn Conyers

Quinn Conyers slid in the Diner booth with me this episode! She is an incredible Master of Ceremonies (emcee) and powerful public speaker who specializes in helping Black women find and use their voices. Quinn and I first b…
Aug. 19, 2021

How to Get Respect and Teach Respect in Relationships, Parenting, and Humanity with Mike Domitrz

This week incredible professional speaker, respect expert, and dear friend, Mike Domitrz is in the booth with me! Age has hurt Mike’s ability to do a lot of late-night eating so we quickly moved past that. We did bond over b…
Aug. 12, 2021

Punching the Misconceptions of Sex Work in the Face with Paige Savage: Model, Content Creator, and Bada$$ Sex Worker

It is so important to have conversations with individuals that we don’t know anything about, because if we don’t hear their story from them, we’ll write the story for them, and often inaccurately so. That’s what today’s epis…
Aug. 5, 2021

From College Football Star to Attempting Suicide to Mental Health Expert with Darryll Stinson

Conversations about mental health need to be in the forefront of our lives, and this episode with my man, Darryll Stinson, is the perfect example of their impact and the power of vulnerability. Darryll was a D1 athlete who w…
July 29, 2021

Speaking Out Against Sexual Violence while Creating Space for Trauma Healing with Trauma Expert, Brittany Piper

Jumping into the Diner with me today is trauma and sexual assault expert, Brittany Piper. Before we got too deep we started out talking about late-night Dairy Queen runs for some blizzards, because, priorities. I then asked …
July 22, 2021

Riding the Self-Esteem Rollercoaster as an Actor with Anna Roisman

What do you get when you put two New York comedians in a Diner? Well, you get 15-minutes up-top talking about soup and how much we love to hate on New Jersey. Solid gold commentary and when you’re getting soup recs from the …
July 15, 2021

Swimming in Antarctica and Multiple Overdoses with Mental Health Expert, Archie Messersmith-Bunting

This week I got to kick it in the booth with Archie Messersmith-Bunting, aka The Feelings Guy™ and we got DEEP. Before diving into conversations about mental health, drug abuse, singing on Broadway, and an experience of bein…
July 8, 2021

When is the Last Time You Played as an Adult? with Gary Ware

My man, Gary Ware, stepped into the diner and brought a bunch of truth and his expertise in play to the booth. Before we dove into all that we compared notes on how we both eat our pancakes. Then we discussed our mutual love…
July 1, 2021

Balancing Work Ethic and Being Gentle with Ourselves with Survivor’s Andrea Boehlke

You love to see a human that’s like, yeah, I did Survivor… THREE times. This week’s guest in the Diner was the woman, the myth, the legend – Andrea Boehlke. She was born and raised in Wisconsin and moved to New York to purs…
June 24, 2021

Falling in Love with Rejection with New York Times bestseller, Harlan Cohen

This week was so much fun, I got to hang out with New York Times Bestselling author, Harlan Cohen, and he shared so many powerful nuggets of wisdom. We kicked off the conversation talking about food (as one does in The Diner…