UNFILTERED: Courageous Conversations about The Cost of Being in Control
We all want to do things well — to be responsible, stay on top of it, make sure nothing slips through the cracks. But when does that turn into control?
In this episode of UNFILTERED, Daphna Horowitz and Amy Riley get honest about the fine line between responsible leadership and the need to control everything. They unpack why leaders grip so tightly, what it costs in terms of energy, creativity, and trust, and how letting go can actually be a deeper form of wisdom.
Join Daphna and Amy for a raw, relatable conversation on hidden control, delegation of authority, and the courage it takes to loosen your grip without letting things fall apart.
Key Highlights
01:15 - The Illusion of Holding It All Together
03:15 - Hidden Control: Responsibility in Disguise
08:40 - The Bottleneck of Decision-Making
13:30 - The Illusion of Being ‘On Top of It’
17:45 - The Fear Beneath Control
22:00 - From Dependency to Capacity: The Real Leadership Shift
27:15 - Control Lives in the Body
30:30 - The Four Shifts: Transparency, Collaboration, Curiosity, Boundaries
34:15 - Moment of Stillness: Letting Go as Wisdom
Connect with Your Co-Hosts
Daphna Horowitz
https://www.linkedin.com/in/daphnahorowitz/
https://www.facebook.com/PEACSolutions
https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/leadership-live/id1524072573
Amy L. Riley
http://www.courageofaleader.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/amyshoopriley
https://courageofaleader.com/podcast/
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