May 27, 2025

10 Habits That No Longer Work in Menopause—What to Do Instead with Jodie Pappas l S2E090

10 Habits That No Longer Work in Menopause—What to Do Instead with Jodie Pappas l S2E090

Today, we’re reframing the journey of menopause not as something to push through, but as an invitation to reset, rediscover, and reconnect with your body in a whole new way.

I’m joined by my dear friend Jodie Pappas, a wellness entrepreneur and holistic nutritionist, for an honest and empowering conversation about healthy aging, mindset shifts, and why what once worked for our bodies might no longer serve us.

Whether you’re in menopause, supporting someone you love, or just curious about this natural phase of life, you’ll walk away with fresh insights, deep compassion, and simple, science-backed tools.

We explore why old habits like intermittent fasting, excessive cardio, and the “hustle” mindset can actually make things worse—and what truly helps instead. From nutrition and sleep to self-compassion and grace, this conversation is about honouring your body and shifting your perspective.

This is your reminder: menopause is not the end—it’s a powerful new beginning.

Linda's Website: Global Wellness Education

Episode 6: Orthorexia, Healthy Eating Gone Bad with Joddie Pappas

About our Guest:

Jodie Pappas is a dedicated holistic nutritionist and entrepreneur with a passion for empowering menopausal and middle-aged women to embrace healthier, more balanced lives. Over the past decade, Jodie has worked closely with women navigating the unique challenges of midlife, whether through her nutrition coaching or as the founder of her skincare brand, Clean Kiss. She is known for her compassionate, non-judgmental approach, encouraging curiosity and self-compassion rather than rigid rules or shame.

Drawing from years of experience and countless conversations with clients, friends, and everyday encounters, Jodie champions gentle, sustainable habits over outdated fads. She educates women on the dangers of habits like chronic fasting, emphasizing instead the importance of stable meal timing, balanced macros, and especially prioritizing protein and fiber. By guiding women to listen to their bodies and nourish themselves without stress or deprivation, Jodie helps them rediscover wellness and confidence during a transformative stage of life.

About Linda:

Have you ever battled overwhelming anxiety, fear, self-limiting beliefs, soul fatigue or stress? It can leave you feeling so lonely and helpless. We’ve all been taught how to be courageous when we face physical threats but when it comes to matters of the heart and soul we are often left to learn, "the hard way."

As a school teacher for over 30+ years, struggling with these very issues, my doctor suggested anti-anxiety medication but that didn't resonate with me so I sought the healing arts. I expanding my teaching skills and became a yoga, meditation, mindfulness, reiki and sound healer to step into my power and own my impact.

A Call for Love will teach you how to find the courage to hold space for your fears and tears. To learn how to love and respect yourself and others more deeply.

My mission is to guide you on your journey. I believe we can help transform the world around us by choosing love. If you don’t love yourself, how can you love anyone else? Join a call for love.

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So as menopausal women, we need to

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forget about the mindset, I gotta lose fat. I gotta lose fat. I

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gotta lose fat. Instead, think, I gotta gain muscle. I

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gotta gain muscle. I gotta gain muscle. Right?

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So when you are switching that

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and you're thinking about muscle, muscle, muscle, you have to be thinking

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about protein. You have to be thinking about how

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you need to be feeding your muscles and feeding your body. And

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so forget about the extreme diets because if you are extreme

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dieting, there's no way that you're getting enough

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protein or enough healthy fats or fiber or things that you

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need in order to nourish healthy healthy muscle in your

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body. Welcome back to A Call for Love. Today's

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episode is one that is you could really benefit from

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because we're talking about menopause. And it's

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an invitation, not a punishment. I know it's

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hard to believe, but it's true. So whether you're personally

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navigating through menopause, know someone who is, or

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just want to understand your body better, you are in the right

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place because we're diving into how what once worked

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for us may no longer be working,

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which I feel and I recognize in my own life. So,

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this conversation is all about really tuning into your body, it's

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about mindset and so much more. So whether you're looking for

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insight, compassion, empathy, or just

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a fresh perspective, stick around and share

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this episode with someone who could use some

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information about this life changing event.

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And to share this conversation with me is my

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dear and beautiful friend and colleague,

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Jody Pappas. So welcome, Jody. Jody is a wellness

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entrepreneur, and she focuses on healthy aging.

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She empowers women in midlife to take back

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control of their health and is a certified holistic

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nutritionist, yoga teacher, author, and founder of the

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award winning skin care brand, Clean Kiss Lifestyle.

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Jody specializes in helping women navigate digestive

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issues, got those, skin concerns, pain

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relief, and inflammation, especially during the

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menopause transition. With over a decade of wellness experience, she blends science backed wellness, to

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A Call for

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Love. Thank you.

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I'm so happy

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to be here. To A Call for Love. Thank you. I'm so

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happy to be here. This is exciting. It's a good day.

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It's such an important conversation.

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It's one that a lot of people are having, but there's a lot

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of information out there. It's really hard nowadays

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to know what is the right advice, and

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it's, I mean, it's the topic that everybody's talking about in

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our age bracket, right? So I'm happy to

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hopefully dispel some myths today and give women

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some food for thought, pun intended,

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around, how nutrition, but how a lot

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of other things it's it's a lot about the

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nutrition, but we're going to talk about a lot of things today. Okay. Well,

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let's dive in. So the first thing I think

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we we really want to focus on, or I feel the listeners will

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want to hear, is how menopause

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shifts us and our body has new needs.

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And I'm, like, it's like I hear so often, I

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don't even recognize my body. I don't even I don't even know

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what used to work doesn't work anymore, and you don't even have to be,

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somebody who's going through it. You could be going through it or you pass one

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through it or you know somebody going through it, but this is Exactly. Huge

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thing. It is a huge thing. And I don't know about you, but

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when I was young and my own mother was going through menopause,

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like, she never talked about it. And in fact, my dear

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87 year old mother can't even remember when she went through it. So

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or share any of those details with me. So I'm glad

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we're having these conversations, and I'm glad that we have this information

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now, not only for ourselves and our own network, but to

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pass on to our daughters, our nieces, our,

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you know, our our neighbors, and all the people, people that

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we interact with because it shouldn't be a closed conversation. It

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needs to be something we all talk about. If this was happening to men, you

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could better believe there would be a lot more

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remedies and solutions and information available. Yeah. I

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think the days of, like, suck it up buttercup are

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over. That's gone. Yeah. And you're

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right. We don't recognize our bodies. We

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we do know that what we used to do in our

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20s, 30s, 40s is no longer working

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for us. And, so it is a new

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reality but I I love that

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line that menopause is an invitation, it's not a

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punishment. And so the more we

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try to fight against it, we're gonna talk a

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lot about mindset today. I am gonna give you practical

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tips, but I want to preface those tips. I actually

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have 10 for you. But I'm gonna preface them with

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saying that it all starts with our

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mindset around menopause. That is the

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foundation to which all these other tips

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will be successful. But if you are

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already feeling the resistance and you're already feeling like, I

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hate this. I hate what's happening in my body. I

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hate these changes. And I know hate is a very

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strong word, but I'm using it to make a point that

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when we resist anything in life, we make

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it so much harder. And I'm not saying that

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to minimize the symptoms that I know so many women are

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struggling with. I'm saying it to,

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try to reframe how we are thinking about this time

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of our life and to think of it as an invitation

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for exploration, for us to

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get curious about what's happening in our bodies,

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and ask ourselves, what is my body

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trying to tell me? Because we know that the body

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gives us messages and it's always listening to our

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thoughts. And so if our thoughts are so negative,

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then of course our body is going to listen to that and it's going to

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be responding to those negative thoughts.

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So let's reframe those thoughts, but let's

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also talk about I don't know, if you wanna jump right into them,

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Linda, but, you know, what are those old habits that we

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used to do that we're going, what

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gives? Why is this no longer working for us? Yeah.

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I I I love this message. Like, what we

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resist persists. And so it's time you

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know, I said the other day to somebody, you know, I I have so

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many trainings and skills. Now I have to learn about the body.

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The

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information out there. And so this is empowering. It's

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time that we take our power back. So let's dive into

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those 10 powerful tips. Absolutely.

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And so these are 10 old

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habits that will no longer work

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for most women. So if any of these habits are things

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you're doing and they're working for you, I'm not here to

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say stop doing them. I'm here to just,

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again, get your curiosity going that perhaps

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if you're still doing these things and they're not working for

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you, these might be things to take off the table. So I never

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wanna shame anybody to say, oh my god. Don't do

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that. That's not my style. As a holistic nutritionist,

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I work mostly with, menopausal

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middle aged women. And, I also have a

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skin care brand, as you mentioned. And so on the skincare

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side with Clean Kiss, I've been working with middle aged

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menopausal women for over a decade. So I know

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that, you know, we have to all come into our own

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when we're ready to get there. But let's let's dive into

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these 10 tips, because they're they're ones that a lot of

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people are still doing. And I see it every day. And every time

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I'm speaking with a woman, whether it be a client or a friend or, you

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know, just somebody I randomly meet in the store.

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So the first one is fasting

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for weight loss. So why does it stop

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working? Well, it stops working because chronic

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fasting elevates our cortisol, which is our stress

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hormone. And and,

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we already have overtaxed adrenals

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just by the shift in hormones that we're experiencing

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with our shift in estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone.

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So most women in this phase of life

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are already struggling with, stressed adrenal

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glands, and so we don't want to be

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adding any more chronic load and chronic stress to

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that load. So the alternative is very

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gentle meal timing. I often will tell my

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clients make sure you're eating soon after waking

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and make sure you're having frequent meals throughout the day.

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You don't ever want your blood sugar to, to

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crash because every time your blood sugar crashes,

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that also releases cortisol and that also

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stresses our body. So any time our body

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goes into that fight or flight mode, which we know is

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our sympathetic nervous system, we stress

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our body. So we wanna keep our body as much

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as possible in our parasympathetic, which is our rest and digest.

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And that's where the real magic happens in our body.

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So, that's number one. So gentle

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meal timing, eating balanced macros. I'm a huge

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fan of menopausal women getting more

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protein. And this is an interesting one because I have a lot of women

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say, well, I already eat a lot of protein. And I say,

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okay. Eat more. Because

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my guess is we're not eating as much as we think

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we are. I know I have a really hard time getting,

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what I recommend. What a lot of experts recommend is a hundred grams of

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protein a day on average. It depends on your

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health goals, but that's a general average for

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all menopausal women to be striving for. That's actually

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pretty tough. That means you need minimum 30

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gs of protein at every meal, And that

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so it's protein. You wanna still be having your carbohydrates. You

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wanna be making sure you're getting enough fiber, and all of

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that's gonna help to balance your blood sugar. So it's it's the

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opposite of fasting where we are not

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consuming any calories. And like I said, the risk is

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that we could be elevating our cortisol by doing that. So

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you are saying this. If

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intermittent fasting if you did it before and you don't find it working, what

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if it still works for you? What do you suggest? Then then

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keep doing it. But I would say

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be mindful of your adrenals. Because

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if it's if, intermittent fasting is working for

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you and how you define

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working is an important measure because that's gonna be

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subjective for everybody. So let's use weight loss specifically.

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So most people do or not most. A lot of people

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do intermittent fasting for weight loss or for weight management.

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If it is enabling you to keep your weight at a

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great, level and you're happy with where you're at

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and you don't feel your stress levels rising, if

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you're sleeping well, if you're doing all the things and you're ticking all the

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boxes, great. That's how I would define that

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it's working for you. But if you're stuck

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and your weight isn't moving and your sleep is in the

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tank and, you know, you're not sleeping, you're waking in the

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middle of the night, I think those are signs that it's not working for

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you. So it might be time to try a different method.

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Okay. Great. Okay?

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Which leads me to number two, which is all about

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sleep. So I have a lot of girlfriends

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that are, late night texters. I have a

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lot of girlfriends that work in, high stress

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corporate environments, which used to be my my

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past. I left that in order to come over

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to the wellness world, and I have a lot of

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people that are still in that space or they're entrepreneurs,

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or they're just maybe even they're retired, but they're in

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this space where they come alive at night. They

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are up late. They're watching TV. They're binging something on Netflix.

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They're on their phone. Maybe they're in bed, and they're scrolling

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Instagram and Facebook and, you know, getting caught up on social

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media, but they're doing it at the expense of getting a good

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night's sleep. And I personally

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am a big fan. I can't say I'm part of the five AM club,

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but I am part of the six AM club. And that seems to work for

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me, going to bed at ten, waking up at six. I'm getting

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my eight hours of sleep. I know that,

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my body is in a happy place when I get that, you

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know, eight to nine hours even for me. I'm recommending

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that women really prioritize their sleep.

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Sleep is when your hormones and your metabolism

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resets. So if you are having trouble with your

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weight, if you are noticing that your midsection

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Well, visceral fat is around the organs. So what we see is that Well, visceral

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fat is around the organs. So what we see in

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the midsection is our subcutaneous fat. So that's

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right below the surface of the skin. That's called our

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subcutaneous fat. If you have subcutaneous

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fat, it could be a key indicator that you also have that

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visceral fat, which is surrounding your organs. And that's what we

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call skinny fat. That's when people are thin

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but maybe not healthy because we don't know what's

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going on on the inside. Thank you. So the other thing that

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I love telling people about sleep is that that's when

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our brain gets detoxified, our whole

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body, but especially our brain. So as we're in

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menopause and we're thinking about brain health, there's a lot of talk about

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brain fog, and we this is the

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time when a lot of people clue in and they start worrying about things like

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dementia, especially if they see a loved one that

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is going through it. Well, that's why you should be prioritizing

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sleep. Think about sleep like a hard reset for your

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brain. We have to shut down our cell phones every now and then

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if they're acting up. We have to shut down our computers if they're

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acting up. It's the same for our brain, and that happens when we

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sleep. Yeah. Good point. So an advocate

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for sleep. I follow the Ayurveda. Like, I try to get to bed by

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ten. Lovely. Lovely. That's why you and I are never

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texting after 10:00 at night. Right?

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Exactly. It's so important. I cannot

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function without sleep and, it's

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yeah. It's everything. It should be everything for everyone.

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So really put it at the top of the priority list. And if people have

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a hard time getting to bed early, just I always say just go

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back a half an hour, then go back an hour. Like Sure. Yeah.

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These these I met somebody, and she says, I have a hard stop at

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nine for all technology. And I was like,

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I love that. I really respect that. I love that too. And

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I I do try to do that. I will often go

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upstairs, kinda change into my comfy clothes at night, and I will

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often put my phone on my charger, upstairs.

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So I'm not looking at it. It's my downtime to spend with my husband, watch

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a show, and then I pack it in. So

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you have to get really, really hard with yourself because

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sometimes you get engrossed in a show and you wanna start another episode.

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You have to say, no. For the good of my health and my beauty

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sleep and everything else, my brain health, I'm packing

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it in. Exactly. So the next one is also related

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to number two and number one, and this is

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coffee all day. So too much coffee or too late

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in the day is going to sabotage your sleep. It's

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it why it stops working for us. So maybe we did this when we were

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younger, and coffee was kind of our get up and go, and we could use

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it all day long. But now it's just overstimulating our

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nervous system. It's increasing our cortisol, and it depletes

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minerals. So, you know, we don't want our body to

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be depleted. Even if we're eating a healthy, clean diet,

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you can be depleting those minerals and just totally negating what you're

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doing by having too much coffee. I am a fan of

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coffee. Don't get me wrong. And I do believe that we should make coffee a

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bit of a sacred ritual. If you are a coffee drinker

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or a tea drinker, make it your sacred ritual. So

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stop, slow down, enjoy that cup of coffee,

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and then maybe you won't need to be having more

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because you made it an event. And I love I

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love having my clients turn their

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coffee drinking into an all day thing to more of an

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event. And then you really savor it, and you and you probably don't need any

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more than that. I love that. And because, you know, I like to

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hold it in my hand, feel the heat, smell it, and so make it a

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mindful practice. Now when would you say your last coffee should

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be? Before noon. Oh,

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yeah. I agree. I was in Costa Rica, and I was indulging in

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coffee, and it didn't work out for me. And you know what?

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It's so good sometimes that you're like, oh, I just want another one.

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But, honestly, switch to a decaf, or

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there's some really great coffee alternatives that I share with my

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clients. I don't have time to get into them today, but, there's

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some really great alternatives that you don't even miss it. You

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don't miss the caffeine. So the next one that we often

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sabotage our health and our lives with is wine and

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alcohol. So why does it stop working?

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Well, it disrupts our sleep for one. So as as

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you can see, everything comes back to the sleep. Right? It's so important.

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It also raises inflammation, and

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it can also worsen hot flashes. So those of you that are

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suffering with hot flashes, you know that sometimes one glass of

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wine and you are cursing. Like, why did I have this?

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So the alternative, I have been exploring all

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kinds of alcohol free alternatives. Thanks to our mutual

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friend, Laura Valvisori. I've gotten

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into ordering online. I ordered all kinds of alcohol free

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wines. And so if I really feel like I want a glass of wine, I

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have an alcohol free wine, and I don't feel like I'm

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missing anything. In fact, I'm so

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happy when I get into bed that I'm like, I'm gonna

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have a best sleep because I did not have a real glass of

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wine. And I wake up and I'm ready to go without any sort of

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hangover headache or anything like that. So

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wine and alcohol is the other thing that I think a lot of women,

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I know you might not wanna hear it, but sometimes

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that is working against us in menopause. I know. I've

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reduced my alcohol consumption by

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90%, And I don't my

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anxiety has, like, decreased significantly.

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Yes. Yes. I agree. It's a killer. It's a

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killer. It it it evokes so much anxiety for

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me as well. And so to me, it's just not even worth it. And I

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I can still enjoy a night out or a night at home with

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my husband without having without having alcohol real alcohol.

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Okay. Number five, hustle culture.

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It doesn't work anymore when we're in menopause. It doesn't work in our

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fifties. I have so many girlfriends

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and colleagues that I network with. You

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know? And, Linda, you and I talk about this all the time. Just

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stopping that overscheduling that leads to burnout.

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I still see women that are doing it, though. I still see those women that

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are like, no. I don't have time for exercise because my day is so

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scheduled. And I think, oh my gosh, like, when will you

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prioritize your health? When will you have that ability

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to book half an hour for yourself to go

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for a walk or, you know, to do something like that. That

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hustle culture, it doesn't work anymore. It's again, we talked about

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the sympathetic versus the parasympathetic. Yes.

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It keeps us in that sympathetic fight or flight.

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And we have to start getting ourselves out of that and recognizing

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when enough is enough. So

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find white space. Just book white space in your

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calendar. Go for walks without technology.

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I do my best thinking. I come up with my best ideas

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either in the shower or when I'm out for a walk

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without my AirPods in my Mine is the shower for

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sure. I have to race out and have a piece of paper for a

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dictation. It's so funny. It's I know. I love it. No singing.

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Just planning in the shower. Just planning in the shower. It's

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something about the energy of the water and the serenity.

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It just allows us to get into that flow state. Right? That's

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so fun. I love that. So that hustle culture,

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honestly, ladies, if you're still stuck on that hamster wheel,

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try to get off of it. I can't tell you how good

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it feels to have more white space in your life. It's

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just a game changer. Okay. Number six.

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I still see this so often. A lot of the work I do

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as a nutritionist, women come to me and they say, just give me

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the meal plan. I just want a plan to follow. I want

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it to be super strict and super hard. And

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it's kind of going to my next point. I'm kind of getting a little bit

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ahead of myself. But what I've my point that I'm trying to make

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is, a lot of time they'll say to me, oh, should I just be cutting

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out carbs? Should I just get rid of every single carb? And I say to

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them, absolutely not. Because what we think

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of as carbs so the traditional

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idea is like rice, pasta, bread. Okay?

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So could you reduce those? Absolutely. Do you need to

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restrict them? Absolutely not. They can

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play a a role in your life. They provide us

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with good fiber. I would say rather than going for white

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rice, go for brown rice. Rather than white bread, go for a

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high fiber, maybe even high protein slice of

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bread. So quality counts don't get hung

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up on the label of carbs. Okay? And

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in fact, eating the same thing on

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repeat where you're lacking fiber and you're

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lacking diversity, that does us a lot of harm.

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So, we I often meet women that are

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struggling with the worst gas and bloating and indigestion,

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and they have, like, a little belly pouch where they look like

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they're pregnant, and they're saying, I don't know what this is from. I

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this is new. And often, I'll say, tell me about the

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diversity of your diet. Tell me how much fiber you're

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eating. I do a little challenge with my clients where I

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say, I want you to write down every single new

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food that you eat each week, and then bring me that list back. And

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try to get 30 new foods or 30 different

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foods. So we we tend to get stuck on

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we go in the grocery store and we buy the same list of foods every

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week. I challenge you to come out with

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new things you've never tried, you've never cooked them before,

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and just look up a recipe or come see a nutritionist,

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and I can give you recipes on how to incorporate these new foods

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into your life. Your gut and your microbiome will

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be so grateful, will be so thankful. Because when you

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introduce diverse foods, you're feeding the healthy

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bacteria. It's like your own probiotic.

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Right? You're feeding with probiotic and prebiotic

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into your gut. So forget about taking a pill,

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get it through your food. Food first. I I find

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that I try to add new foods into my diet because

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it's new nutrients that your body hasn't recognized. And if you're

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always getting the same if you always do what you've always done, you'll always get

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what you've always gotten. Right? Or worse.

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Right? Or worse. Exactly. And our bodies are changing.

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Alright. So number seven, which you touched

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upon. I did. I just just a moment ago,

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but it's different from cutting carbs or just eating

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the same thing all the time. Yeah. Now we're talking about extreme

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dieting. Yeah. So number seven, why it stops working? It

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slows our metabolism and it stresses

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our body again, and it sabotages muscle

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mass. So as menopausal women, we need to

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forget about the mindset, I gotta lose fat. I gotta lose fat. I gotta

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lose fat. Instead, think, I gotta gain muscle. I gotta

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gain muscle. I gotta gain muscle. Right? So

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when you are switching that and you're thinking about

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muscle, muscle, muscle, you have to be thinking about protein. You

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have to be thinking about how you need to be

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feeding your muscles and feeding your body. And so forget about the

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extreme diets because if you are extreme dieting, you're

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there's no way that you're getting enough protein or enough

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healthy fats or fiber or things that you need in order to

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nourish healthy healthy muscle in your body.

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And I would like to add to that that we had a fantastic

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conversation, and people go back to this episode many times.

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Episode six, because you were the first guest of mine

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on A Call for Love. And we talked about orthorexia,

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healthy eating gone bad, and it talks

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all about this. It's really a brilliant,

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episode. So I will put that link in the show notes, but it's

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A Call for Love episode six.

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Beautiful. Thank you. And, yeah, it's it's not only is

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it harmful for our bodies to be that extreme, but it's

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harmful for the mind. Yeah. And that's exactly what Linda is referencing in that

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episode six. Okay. Number eight, excessive

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cardio. I can't tell you. I'm at the gym almost

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every day, and those cardio machines are

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packed. The weight area,

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less so. Okay? Interesting.

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Women, I know we know cardio. We know how to do the cardio.

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We know how to walk on a treadmill. We know how to get onto a

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stair machine or an elliptical.

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That's that's good. That's important. We have to do that

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for our heart health. But to my last point around

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building muscle, forget about fat loss. We were all trained

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and told that we need to do excess cardio in order to reduce

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fat. Park that notion. In fact, don't even park

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it. Like, lose it. Lose that. Think about

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protein. So you're not building protein by going on

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the cardio machines. K? You're gonna do that when

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you walk over to the stack of weights or you use your own free

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weights at home or you use the machines at the gym and you

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start actually lifting weight to do resistance

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training to start to build muscle in your body. So important.

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Can't talk enough about it. So important. And I'm not a personal trainer. I'm

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a yoga teacher. Like you, Linda.

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Yoga also plays a role in our body, and in

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our life. I think it's super important. Yeah. But we

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need we need that resistance training. So what I like to

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tell people is forget about that excess of cardio, get put on

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your running shoes, go for a walk every day. Get,

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I recommend, eight to 12,000 steps a day. Yes. I've

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actually been doing 12,000 for the last two weeks now, the the

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now that the weather's turned nice. Excellent. My body feels so

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good. And try to do strength training two to three

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days a week and still get your yoga in. I would say if you

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can get yoga in two to three days a week as well, your body is

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going to feel amazing. Start small. Work your way

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up to that. But that that should be everyone's goal in that.

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It's a good it's it's great to have a goal to reach towards, you

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know? Exactly. If you don't aim high, you can't you

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can't go in that direction. Beautiful. So number nine. Number

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nine, toxins in products. So I would be remiss if I

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didn't talk about the toxins and the harmful things that those

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do to our menopausal bodies. Not only menopausal,

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but also for, anyone that has,

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teenagers at home, when their bodies are developing or

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even babies, heaven forbid, they're being exposed to these toxins.

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We know that we are exposed to thousands of toxins

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every day in our personal care products, in our home cleaning

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products, our laundry products. And that's that's

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just in our home. Like, we're not even talking about when we open the

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front door and we walk outside and we're exposed to fumes and things

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like that. So start at home. Start small. Start

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reading labels. Start seeing what's in all the things

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that you're using. Start to become familiar with

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some of the words on labels. There's, so

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many clean brands out there. So, obviously, I'm passionate about

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this because I am a clean, skincare formulator

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with my own brand, but just start making those

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swaps. Start being aware of what they're doing.

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The last thing we need when we are in menopause is anything

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that is what we call xenoestrogenic.

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So xeno is with an x if you wanna Google that. So

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xenoestrogens xenoestrogens are those toxins that

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we are exposed to in products. And

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they do, alter our estrogen. They

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do mimic estrogen in the body, is the way that they

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work. So they bind to the same estrogen receptors that we

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have all over our body and they can cause a lot of health

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issues up to and including, breast

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cancer so and other cancers so we

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really need to be really aware of what

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we're buying and what we're using. Excellent.

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Point number two. One, which is super important.

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Super important. You know, we used to

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perhaps, some of us used to be able to,

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you know, look at ourselves in the mirror and we go, oh, I don't like

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what I'm seeing. That's it. I'm gonna, you know, do everything

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that I just mentioned from one to nine. I'm gonna cut carbs, and I'm gonna

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add more cardio, and I'm gonna do all these things. You

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know, even back in the day, maybe even going and saying, I'm gonna

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go buy some diet pill that's gonna speed up my

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metabolism because I don't like what I'm seeing.

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This is so negative. And so a negative

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body image, it it increases our stress and it

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increases our our ability to self

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sabotage ourselves. So the alternative is

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showing ourselves compassion and acceptance.

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And like like you started with, Linda, it's

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seeing menopause more as an invitation, not a

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punishment. And, you know, we just really need to

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start finding one small thing. Even

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if it's so hard for you to do this. Find one

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small thing that you're grateful for about your body. Like,

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if you're listening to this podcast, maybe you hit pause and you

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just sit here right now and you just think about what's one thing that I

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can be grateful for. And I even challenge the listeners. Every time you

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I love that. Yes. And so my all day, baby. But,

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anyways, whatever like, let's counteract the negative with the positive.

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Alright. Well, thank you for sharing those. Those are really

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key takeaways. Mhmm. Yeah.

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Yeah. Yeah. And, you know, it's all about grace over guilt.

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Right? So we can guilt ourselves till the cows come

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home around, you know, what we do and how we

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treat our body. But until we start showing it a little bit more

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grace, we're we're really not gonna

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see the impact of some of these swaps. So these 10 things

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that I've talked about, you're now swapping these habits.

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And I know that habit change takes time. I

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know it's going to take consistency is super

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important. So, you know, I tell people,

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you have to do these things for at least thirty days. Like,

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at least thirty days, maybe longer. Right? So

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and and now is the time to start. So today is

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always a good day to start. Don't wait for, you know, January

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1 or, you know, wait for some other wait for a birthday. Like,

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do it now. Alright, Jody. Now I asked this of my

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guests, and, you know, a call for love is about noticing how

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you're living. Are you in a place of stress, fear, and anxiety?

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And if that is the case, then how do you shift? How do you shift

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to a higher vibration, like, of more

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care for your mind, body, and soul, and that's a call for love.

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So how do you invite a call for love in your life when

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you are out of alignment with your Higher Self?

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So for me, I feel it pretty

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instantly. I think when I'm out of alignment, I feel it in

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my body. Like, viscerally, I feel it in my body,

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in my back, in joint pain, things like that that are going

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on, in my body. And so I like to

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shut everything off. I like to get out in nature. I love

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walking. I'm very lucky to live in Oakville with all the green space

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and trails nearby. So I'll get out in nature

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or I'll get near water. So if I can get on an

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airplane, get to a beach, get in the water, feel the sand in my

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toes, those are the ways that I invite

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more love and peace and calm into my body. Yeah,

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I feel that from you. Yeah, really beautiful. And because you walk

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eight to 12,000 steps a day. I

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sure do. And I love it. And, yeah, it's

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it's it's what works for my body. It's what keeps my pain

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at bay and keeps my mind nice and

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clear and fresh. Oh, beautiful. Well, thank you for

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sharing that with the listeners. And so, Jodi, how can

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people reach you? So they can

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reach me a couple of different ways. So through social media,

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I'm jodi. Wellpreneur on

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Instagram or on

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Instagram, that's for my skin care business. The first one is for my nutrition

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business. And I work out of the Bronte Wellness

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Boutique which is in Oakville, Ontario, Canada.

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And so if you're not in that general vicinity and can't come

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for an in person consultation with me, you could always do it

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virtually, which is lovely. So if you head over to

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berontiwellness.ca, that's the website, and

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you can find me on their website, and you can book in with me

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there. We do have a complimentary

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meet and greet, so you can have, meet and greet with me and

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just see if I'm the right practitioner to help you to meet your health

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goals. Excellent. Well I'm sure there will be

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people reaching out, and I want to thank you because this is such an important

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conversation, and I love that Minute a Paws is an

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invitation. It's an invitation to shift how we've always

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lived, become better, to become better versions

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of ourselves. And yeah, there's a grieving process

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losing what we once were, but you know that's the cycle of life

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and what we resist persists. So let's

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all embrace this new stage for

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ourselves and for those we care about because it's going to

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happen whether we like it or not. Absolutely.

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And so we can either fight it, you know, like trying

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to fight going over a waterfall, or in trying to

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swim upstream, or you can go with the flow. Right? So that's the

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analogy that I like to think of. And while it might not

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be easy, you know, going with the flow is certainly a lot

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easier than trying to swim upstream. Yeah. So thank you.

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Thank you, everyone, for listening to the end. And from my

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heart to yours, namaste. Namaste.