10 Habits That No Longer Work in Menopause—What to Do Instead with Jodie Pappas l S2E090

Today, we’re reframing the journey of menopause not as something to push through, but as an invitation to reset, rediscover, and reconnect with your body in a whole new way.
I’m joined by my dear friend Jodie Pappas, a wellness entrepreneur and holistic nutritionist, for an honest and empowering conversation about healthy aging, mindset shifts, and why what once worked for our bodies might no longer serve us.
Whether you’re in menopause, supporting someone you love, or just curious about this natural phase of life, you’ll walk away with fresh insights, deep compassion, and simple, science-backed tools.
We explore why old habits like intermittent fasting, excessive cardio, and the “hustle” mindset can actually make things worse—and what truly helps instead. From nutrition and sleep to self-compassion and grace, this conversation is about honouring your body and shifting your perspective.
This is your reminder: menopause is not the end—it’s a powerful new beginning.
Linda's Website: Global Wellness Education
Episode 6: Orthorexia, Healthy Eating Gone Bad with Joddie Pappas
About our Guest:
Jodie Pappas is a dedicated holistic nutritionist and entrepreneur with a passion for empowering menopausal and middle-aged women to embrace healthier, more balanced lives. Over the past decade, Jodie has worked closely with women navigating the unique challenges of midlife, whether through her nutrition coaching or as the founder of her skincare brand, Clean Kiss. She is known for her compassionate, non-judgmental approach, encouraging curiosity and self-compassion rather than rigid rules or shame.
Drawing from years of experience and countless conversations with clients, friends, and everyday encounters, Jodie champions gentle, sustainable habits over outdated fads. She educates women on the dangers of habits like chronic fasting, emphasizing instead the importance of stable meal timing, balanced macros, and especially prioritizing protein and fiber. By guiding women to listen to their bodies and nourish themselves without stress or deprivation, Jodie helps them rediscover wellness and confidence during a transformative stage of life.
About Linda:
Have you ever battled overwhelming anxiety, fear, self-limiting beliefs, soul fatigue or stress? It can leave you feeling so lonely and helpless. We’ve all been taught how to be courageous when we face physical threats but when it comes to matters of the heart and soul we are often left to learn, "the hard way."
As a school teacher for over 30+ years, struggling with these very issues, my doctor suggested anti-anxiety medication but that didn't resonate with me so I sought the healing arts. I expanding my teaching skills and became a yoga, meditation, mindfulness, reiki and sound healer to step into my power and own my impact.
A Call for Love will teach you how to find the courage to hold space for your fears and tears. To learn how to love and respect yourself and others more deeply.
My mission is to guide you on your journey. I believe we can help transform the world around us by choosing love. If you don’t love yourself, how can you love anyone else? Join a call for love.
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So as menopausal women, we need to
Speaker:forget about the mindset, I gotta lose fat. I gotta lose fat. I
Speaker:gotta lose fat. Instead, think, I gotta gain muscle. I
Speaker:gotta gain muscle. I gotta gain muscle. Right?
Speaker:So when you are switching that
Speaker:and you're thinking about muscle, muscle, muscle, you have to be thinking
Speaker:about protein. You have to be thinking about how
Speaker:you need to be feeding your muscles and feeding your body. And
Speaker:so forget about the extreme diets because if you are extreme
Speaker:dieting, there's no way that you're getting enough
Speaker:protein or enough healthy fats or fiber or things that you
Speaker:need in order to nourish healthy healthy muscle in your
Speaker:body. Welcome back to A Call for Love. Today's
Speaker:episode is one that is you could really benefit from
Speaker:because we're talking about menopause. And it's
Speaker:an invitation, not a punishment. I know it's
Speaker:hard to believe, but it's true. So whether you're personally
Speaker:navigating through menopause, know someone who is, or
Speaker:just want to understand your body better, you are in the right
Speaker:place because we're diving into how what once worked
Speaker:for us may no longer be working,
Speaker:which I feel and I recognize in my own life. So,
Speaker:this conversation is all about really tuning into your body, it's
Speaker:about mindset and so much more. So whether you're looking for
Speaker:insight, compassion, empathy, or just
Speaker:a fresh perspective, stick around and share
Speaker:this episode with someone who could use some
Speaker:information about this life changing event.
Speaker:And to share this conversation with me is my
Speaker:dear and beautiful friend and colleague,
Speaker:Jody Pappas. So welcome, Jody. Jody is a wellness
Speaker:entrepreneur, and she focuses on healthy aging.
Speaker:She empowers women in midlife to take back
Speaker:control of their health and is a certified holistic
Speaker:nutritionist, yoga teacher, author, and founder of the
Speaker:award winning skin care brand, Clean Kiss Lifestyle.
Speaker:Jody specializes in helping women navigate digestive
Speaker:issues, got those, skin concerns, pain
Speaker:relief, and inflammation, especially during the
Speaker:menopause transition. With over a decade of wellness experience, she blends science backed wellness, to
Speaker:A Call for
Speaker:Love. Thank you.
Speaker:I'm so happy
Speaker:to be here. To A Call for Love. Thank you. I'm so
Speaker:happy to be here. This is exciting. It's a good day.
Speaker:It's such an important conversation.
Speaker:It's one that a lot of people are having, but there's a lot
Speaker:of information out there. It's really hard nowadays
Speaker:to know what is the right advice, and
Speaker:it's, I mean, it's the topic that everybody's talking about in
Speaker:our age bracket, right? So I'm happy to
Speaker:hopefully dispel some myths today and give women
Speaker:some food for thought, pun intended,
Speaker:around, how nutrition, but how a lot
Speaker:of other things it's it's a lot about the
Speaker:nutrition, but we're going to talk about a lot of things today. Okay. Well,
Speaker:let's dive in. So the first thing I think
Speaker:we we really want to focus on, or I feel the listeners will
Speaker:want to hear, is how menopause
Speaker:shifts us and our body has new needs.
Speaker:And I'm, like, it's like I hear so often, I
Speaker:don't even recognize my body. I don't even I don't even know
Speaker:what used to work doesn't work anymore, and you don't even have to be,
Speaker:somebody who's going through it. You could be going through it or you pass one
Speaker:through it or you know somebody going through it, but this is Exactly. Huge
Speaker:thing. It is a huge thing. And I don't know about you, but
Speaker:when I was young and my own mother was going through menopause,
Speaker:like, she never talked about it. And in fact, my dear
Speaker:87 year old mother can't even remember when she went through it. So
Speaker:or share any of those details with me. So I'm glad
Speaker:we're having these conversations, and I'm glad that we have this information
Speaker:now, not only for ourselves and our own network, but to
Speaker:pass on to our daughters, our nieces, our,
Speaker:you know, our our neighbors, and all the people, people that
Speaker:we interact with because it shouldn't be a closed conversation. It
Speaker:needs to be something we all talk about. If this was happening to men, you
Speaker:could better believe there would be a lot more
Speaker:remedies and solutions and information available. Yeah. I
Speaker:think the days of, like, suck it up buttercup are
Speaker:over. That's gone. Yeah. And you're
Speaker:right. We don't recognize our bodies. We
Speaker:we do know that what we used to do in our
Speaker:20s, 30s, 40s is no longer working
Speaker:for us. And, so it is a new
Speaker:reality but I I love that
Speaker:line that menopause is an invitation, it's not a
Speaker:punishment. And so the more we
Speaker:try to fight against it, we're gonna talk a
Speaker:lot about mindset today. I am gonna give you practical
Speaker:tips, but I want to preface those tips. I actually
Speaker:have 10 for you. But I'm gonna preface them with
Speaker:saying that it all starts with our
Speaker:mindset around menopause. That is the
Speaker:foundation to which all these other tips
Speaker:will be successful. But if you are
Speaker:already feeling the resistance and you're already feeling like, I
Speaker:hate this. I hate what's happening in my body. I
Speaker:hate these changes. And I know hate is a very
Speaker:strong word, but I'm using it to make a point that
Speaker:when we resist anything in life, we make
Speaker:it so much harder. And I'm not saying that
Speaker:to minimize the symptoms that I know so many women are
Speaker:struggling with. I'm saying it to,
Speaker:try to reframe how we are thinking about this time
Speaker:of our life and to think of it as an invitation
Speaker:for exploration, for us to
Speaker:get curious about what's happening in our bodies,
Speaker:and ask ourselves, what is my body
Speaker:trying to tell me? Because we know that the body
Speaker:gives us messages and it's always listening to our
Speaker:thoughts. And so if our thoughts are so negative,
Speaker:then of course our body is going to listen to that and it's going to
Speaker:be responding to those negative thoughts.
Speaker:So let's reframe those thoughts, but let's
Speaker:also talk about I don't know, if you wanna jump right into them,
Speaker:Linda, but, you know, what are those old habits that we
Speaker:used to do that we're going, what
Speaker:gives? Why is this no longer working for us? Yeah.
Speaker:I I I love this message. Like, what we
Speaker:resist persists. And so it's time you
Speaker:know, I said the other day to somebody, you know, I I have so
Speaker:many trainings and skills. Now I have to learn about the body.
Speaker:The
Speaker:information out there. And so this is empowering. It's
Speaker:time that we take our power back. So let's dive into
Speaker:those 10 powerful tips. Absolutely.
Speaker:And so these are 10 old
Speaker:habits that will no longer work
Speaker:for most women. So if any of these habits are things
Speaker:you're doing and they're working for you, I'm not here to
Speaker:say stop doing them. I'm here to just,
Speaker:again, get your curiosity going that perhaps
Speaker:if you're still doing these things and they're not working for
Speaker:you, these might be things to take off the table. So I never
Speaker:wanna shame anybody to say, oh my god. Don't do
Speaker:that. That's not my style. As a holistic nutritionist,
Speaker:I work mostly with, menopausal
Speaker:middle aged women. And, I also have a
Speaker:skin care brand, as you mentioned. And so on the skincare
Speaker:side with Clean Kiss, I've been working with middle aged
Speaker:menopausal women for over a decade. So I know
Speaker:that, you know, we have to all come into our own
Speaker:when we're ready to get there. But let's let's dive into
Speaker:these 10 tips, because they're they're ones that a lot of
Speaker:people are still doing. And I see it every day. And every time
Speaker:I'm speaking with a woman, whether it be a client or a friend or, you
Speaker:know, just somebody I randomly meet in the store.
Speaker:So the first one is fasting
Speaker:for weight loss. So why does it stop
Speaker:working? Well, it stops working because chronic
Speaker:fasting elevates our cortisol, which is our stress
Speaker:hormone. And and,
Speaker:we already have overtaxed adrenals
Speaker:just by the shift in hormones that we're experiencing
Speaker:with our shift in estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone.
Speaker:So most women in this phase of life
Speaker:are already struggling with, stressed adrenal
Speaker:glands, and so we don't want to be
Speaker:adding any more chronic load and chronic stress to
Speaker:that load. So the alternative is very
Speaker:gentle meal timing. I often will tell my
Speaker:clients make sure you're eating soon after waking
Speaker:and make sure you're having frequent meals throughout the day.
Speaker:You don't ever want your blood sugar to, to
Speaker:crash because every time your blood sugar crashes,
Speaker:that also releases cortisol and that also
Speaker:stresses our body. So any time our body
Speaker:goes into that fight or flight mode, which we know is
Speaker:our sympathetic nervous system, we stress
Speaker:our body. So we wanna keep our body as much
Speaker:as possible in our parasympathetic, which is our rest and digest.
Speaker:And that's where the real magic happens in our body.
Speaker:So, that's number one. So gentle
Speaker:meal timing, eating balanced macros. I'm a huge
Speaker:fan of menopausal women getting more
Speaker:protein. And this is an interesting one because I have a lot of women
Speaker:say, well, I already eat a lot of protein. And I say,
Speaker:okay. Eat more. Because
Speaker:my guess is we're not eating as much as we think
Speaker:we are. I know I have a really hard time getting,
Speaker:what I recommend. What a lot of experts recommend is a hundred grams of
Speaker:protein a day on average. It depends on your
Speaker:health goals, but that's a general average for
Speaker:all menopausal women to be striving for. That's actually
Speaker:pretty tough. That means you need minimum 30
Speaker:gs of protein at every meal, And that
Speaker:so it's protein. You wanna still be having your carbohydrates. You
Speaker:wanna be making sure you're getting enough fiber, and all of
Speaker:that's gonna help to balance your blood sugar. So it's it's the
Speaker:opposite of fasting where we are not
Speaker:consuming any calories. And like I said, the risk is
Speaker:that we could be elevating our cortisol by doing that. So
Speaker:you are saying this. If
Speaker:intermittent fasting if you did it before and you don't find it working, what
Speaker:if it still works for you? What do you suggest? Then then
Speaker:keep doing it. But I would say
Speaker:be mindful of your adrenals. Because
Speaker:if it's if, intermittent fasting is working for
Speaker:you and how you define
Speaker:working is an important measure because that's gonna be
Speaker:subjective for everybody. So let's use weight loss specifically.
Speaker:So most people do or not most. A lot of people
Speaker:do intermittent fasting for weight loss or for weight management.
Speaker:If it is enabling you to keep your weight at a
Speaker:great, level and you're happy with where you're at
Speaker:and you don't feel your stress levels rising, if
Speaker:you're sleeping well, if you're doing all the things and you're ticking all the
Speaker:boxes, great. That's how I would define that
Speaker:it's working for you. But if you're stuck
Speaker:and your weight isn't moving and your sleep is in the
Speaker:tank and, you know, you're not sleeping, you're waking in the
Speaker:middle of the night, I think those are signs that it's not working for
Speaker:you. So it might be time to try a different method.
Speaker:Okay. Great. Okay?
Speaker:Which leads me to number two, which is all about
Speaker:sleep. So I have a lot of girlfriends
Speaker:that are, late night texters. I have a
Speaker:lot of girlfriends that work in, high stress
Speaker:corporate environments, which used to be my my
Speaker:past. I left that in order to come over
Speaker:to the wellness world, and I have a lot of
Speaker:people that are still in that space or they're entrepreneurs,
Speaker:or they're just maybe even they're retired, but they're in
Speaker:this space where they come alive at night. They
Speaker:are up late. They're watching TV. They're binging something on Netflix.
Speaker:They're on their phone. Maybe they're in bed, and they're scrolling
Speaker:Instagram and Facebook and, you know, getting caught up on social
Speaker:media, but they're doing it at the expense of getting a good
Speaker:night's sleep. And I personally
Speaker:am a big fan. I can't say I'm part of the five AM club,
Speaker:but I am part of the six AM club. And that seems to work for
Speaker:me, going to bed at ten, waking up at six. I'm getting
Speaker:my eight hours of sleep. I know that,
Speaker:my body is in a happy place when I get that, you
Speaker:know, eight to nine hours even for me. I'm recommending
Speaker:that women really prioritize their sleep.
Speaker:Sleep is when your hormones and your metabolism
Speaker:resets. So if you are having trouble with your
Speaker:weight, if you are noticing that your midsection
Speaker:Well, visceral fat is around the organs. So what we see is that Well, visceral
Speaker:fat is around the organs. So what we see in
Speaker:the midsection is our subcutaneous fat. So that's
Speaker:right below the surface of the skin. That's called our
Speaker:subcutaneous fat. If you have subcutaneous
Speaker:fat, it could be a key indicator that you also have that
Speaker:visceral fat, which is surrounding your organs. And that's what we
Speaker:call skinny fat. That's when people are thin
Speaker:but maybe not healthy because we don't know what's
Speaker:going on on the inside. Thank you. So the other thing that
Speaker:I love telling people about sleep is that that's when
Speaker:our brain gets detoxified, our whole
Speaker:body, but especially our brain. So as we're in
Speaker:menopause and we're thinking about brain health, there's a lot of talk about
Speaker:brain fog, and we this is the
Speaker:time when a lot of people clue in and they start worrying about things like
Speaker:dementia, especially if they see a loved one that
Speaker:is going through it. Well, that's why you should be prioritizing
Speaker:sleep. Think about sleep like a hard reset for your
Speaker:brain. We have to shut down our cell phones every now and then
Speaker:if they're acting up. We have to shut down our computers if they're
Speaker:acting up. It's the same for our brain, and that happens when we
Speaker:sleep. Yeah. Good point. So an advocate
Speaker:for sleep. I follow the Ayurveda. Like, I try to get to bed by
Speaker:ten. Lovely. Lovely. That's why you and I are never
Speaker:texting after 10:00 at night. Right?
Speaker:Exactly. It's so important. I cannot
Speaker:function without sleep and, it's
Speaker:yeah. It's everything. It should be everything for everyone.
Speaker:So really put it at the top of the priority list. And if people have
Speaker:a hard time getting to bed early, just I always say just go
Speaker:back a half an hour, then go back an hour. Like Sure. Yeah.
Speaker:These these I met somebody, and she says, I have a hard stop at
Speaker:nine for all technology. And I was like,
Speaker:I love that. I really respect that. I love that too. And
Speaker:I I do try to do that. I will often go
Speaker:upstairs, kinda change into my comfy clothes at night, and I will
Speaker:often put my phone on my charger, upstairs.
Speaker:So I'm not looking at it. It's my downtime to spend with my husband, watch
Speaker:a show, and then I pack it in. So
Speaker:you have to get really, really hard with yourself because
Speaker:sometimes you get engrossed in a show and you wanna start another episode.
Speaker:You have to say, no. For the good of my health and my beauty
Speaker:sleep and everything else, my brain health, I'm packing
Speaker:it in. Exactly. So the next one is also related
Speaker:to number two and number one, and this is
Speaker:coffee all day. So too much coffee or too late
Speaker:in the day is going to sabotage your sleep. It's
Speaker:it why it stops working for us. So maybe we did this when we were
Speaker:younger, and coffee was kind of our get up and go, and we could use
Speaker:it all day long. But now it's just overstimulating our
Speaker:nervous system. It's increasing our cortisol, and it depletes
Speaker:minerals. So, you know, we don't want our body to
Speaker:be depleted. Even if we're eating a healthy, clean diet,
Speaker:you can be depleting those minerals and just totally negating what you're
Speaker:doing by having too much coffee. I am a fan of
Speaker:coffee. Don't get me wrong. And I do believe that we should make coffee a
Speaker:bit of a sacred ritual. If you are a coffee drinker
Speaker:or a tea drinker, make it your sacred ritual. So
Speaker:stop, slow down, enjoy that cup of coffee,
Speaker:and then maybe you won't need to be having more
Speaker:because you made it an event. And I love I
Speaker:love having my clients turn their
Speaker:coffee drinking into an all day thing to more of an
Speaker:event. And then you really savor it, and you and you probably don't need any
Speaker:more than that. I love that. And because, you know, I like to
Speaker:hold it in my hand, feel the heat, smell it, and so make it a
Speaker:mindful practice. Now when would you say your last coffee should
Speaker:be? Before noon. Oh,
Speaker:yeah. I agree. I was in Costa Rica, and I was indulging in
Speaker:coffee, and it didn't work out for me. And you know what?
Speaker:It's so good sometimes that you're like, oh, I just want another one.
Speaker:But, honestly, switch to a decaf, or
Speaker:there's some really great coffee alternatives that I share with my
Speaker:clients. I don't have time to get into them today, but, there's
Speaker:some really great alternatives that you don't even miss it. You
Speaker:don't miss the caffeine. So the next one that we often
Speaker:sabotage our health and our lives with is wine and
Speaker:alcohol. So why does it stop working?
Speaker:Well, it disrupts our sleep for one. So as as
Speaker:you can see, everything comes back to the sleep. Right? It's so important.
Speaker:It also raises inflammation, and
Speaker:it can also worsen hot flashes. So those of you that are
Speaker:suffering with hot flashes, you know that sometimes one glass of
Speaker:wine and you are cursing. Like, why did I have this?
Speaker:So the alternative, I have been exploring all
Speaker:kinds of alcohol free alternatives. Thanks to our mutual
Speaker:friend, Laura Valvisori. I've gotten
Speaker:into ordering online. I ordered all kinds of alcohol free
Speaker:wines. And so if I really feel like I want a glass of wine, I
Speaker:have an alcohol free wine, and I don't feel like I'm
Speaker:missing anything. In fact, I'm so
Speaker:happy when I get into bed that I'm like, I'm gonna
Speaker:have a best sleep because I did not have a real glass of
Speaker:wine. And I wake up and I'm ready to go without any sort of
Speaker:hangover headache or anything like that. So
Speaker:wine and alcohol is the other thing that I think a lot of women,
Speaker:I know you might not wanna hear it, but sometimes
Speaker:that is working against us in menopause. I know. I've
Speaker:reduced my alcohol consumption by
Speaker:90%, And I don't my
Speaker:anxiety has, like, decreased significantly.
Speaker:Yes. Yes. I agree. It's a killer. It's a
Speaker:killer. It it it evokes so much anxiety for
Speaker:me as well. And so to me, it's just not even worth it. And I
Speaker:I can still enjoy a night out or a night at home with
Speaker:my husband without having without having alcohol real alcohol.
Speaker:Okay. Number five, hustle culture.
Speaker:It doesn't work anymore when we're in menopause. It doesn't work in our
Speaker:fifties. I have so many girlfriends
Speaker:and colleagues that I network with. You
Speaker:know? And, Linda, you and I talk about this all the time. Just
Speaker:stopping that overscheduling that leads to burnout.
Speaker:I still see women that are doing it, though. I still see those women that
Speaker:are like, no. I don't have time for exercise because my day is so
Speaker:scheduled. And I think, oh my gosh, like, when will you
Speaker:prioritize your health? When will you have that ability
Speaker:to book half an hour for yourself to go
Speaker:for a walk or, you know, to do something like that. That
Speaker:hustle culture, it doesn't work anymore. It's again, we talked about
Speaker:the sympathetic versus the parasympathetic. Yes.
Speaker:It keeps us in that sympathetic fight or flight.
Speaker:And we have to start getting ourselves out of that and recognizing
Speaker:when enough is enough. So
Speaker:find white space. Just book white space in your
Speaker:calendar. Go for walks without technology.
Speaker:I do my best thinking. I come up with my best ideas
Speaker:either in the shower or when I'm out for a walk
Speaker:without my AirPods in my Mine is the shower for
Speaker:sure. I have to race out and have a piece of paper for a
Speaker:dictation. It's so funny. It's I know. I love it. No singing.
Speaker:Just planning in the shower. Just planning in the shower. It's
Speaker:something about the energy of the water and the serenity.
Speaker:It just allows us to get into that flow state. Right? That's
Speaker:so fun. I love that. So that hustle culture,
Speaker:honestly, ladies, if you're still stuck on that hamster wheel,
Speaker:try to get off of it. I can't tell you how good
Speaker:it feels to have more white space in your life. It's
Speaker:just a game changer. Okay. Number six.
Speaker:I still see this so often. A lot of the work I do
Speaker:as a nutritionist, women come to me and they say, just give me
Speaker:the meal plan. I just want a plan to follow. I want
Speaker:it to be super strict and super hard. And
Speaker:it's kind of going to my next point. I'm kind of getting a little bit
Speaker:ahead of myself. But what I've my point that I'm trying to make
Speaker:is, a lot of time they'll say to me, oh, should I just be cutting
Speaker:out carbs? Should I just get rid of every single carb? And I say to
Speaker:them, absolutely not. Because what we think
Speaker:of as carbs so the traditional
Speaker:idea is like rice, pasta, bread. Okay?
Speaker:So could you reduce those? Absolutely. Do you need to
Speaker:restrict them? Absolutely not. They can
Speaker:play a a role in your life. They provide us
Speaker:with good fiber. I would say rather than going for white
Speaker:rice, go for brown rice. Rather than white bread, go for a
Speaker:high fiber, maybe even high protein slice of
Speaker:bread. So quality counts don't get hung
Speaker:up on the label of carbs. Okay? And
Speaker:in fact, eating the same thing on
Speaker:repeat where you're lacking fiber and you're
Speaker:lacking diversity, that does us a lot of harm.
Speaker:So, we I often meet women that are
Speaker:struggling with the worst gas and bloating and indigestion,
Speaker:and they have, like, a little belly pouch where they look like
Speaker:they're pregnant, and they're saying, I don't know what this is from. I
Speaker:this is new. And often, I'll say, tell me about the
Speaker:diversity of your diet. Tell me how much fiber you're
Speaker:eating. I do a little challenge with my clients where I
Speaker:say, I want you to write down every single new
Speaker:food that you eat each week, and then bring me that list back. And
Speaker:try to get 30 new foods or 30 different
Speaker:foods. So we we tend to get stuck on
Speaker:we go in the grocery store and we buy the same list of foods every
Speaker:week. I challenge you to come out with
Speaker:new things you've never tried, you've never cooked them before,
Speaker:and just look up a recipe or come see a nutritionist,
Speaker:and I can give you recipes on how to incorporate these new foods
Speaker:into your life. Your gut and your microbiome will
Speaker:be so grateful, will be so thankful. Because when you
Speaker:introduce diverse foods, you're feeding the healthy
Speaker:bacteria. It's like your own probiotic.
Speaker:Right? You're feeding with probiotic and prebiotic
Speaker:into your gut. So forget about taking a pill,
Speaker:get it through your food. Food first. I I find
Speaker:that I try to add new foods into my diet because
Speaker:it's new nutrients that your body hasn't recognized. And if you're
Speaker:always getting the same if you always do what you've always done, you'll always get
Speaker:what you've always gotten. Right? Or worse.
Speaker:Right? Or worse. Exactly. And our bodies are changing.
Speaker:Alright. So number seven, which you touched
Speaker:upon. I did. I just just a moment ago,
Speaker:but it's different from cutting carbs or just eating
Speaker:the same thing all the time. Yeah. Now we're talking about extreme
Speaker:dieting. Yeah. So number seven, why it stops working? It
Speaker:slows our metabolism and it stresses
Speaker:our body again, and it sabotages muscle
Speaker:mass. So as menopausal women, we need to
Speaker:forget about the mindset, I gotta lose fat. I gotta lose fat. I gotta
Speaker:lose fat. Instead, think, I gotta gain muscle. I gotta
Speaker:gain muscle. I gotta gain muscle. Right? So
Speaker:when you are switching that and you're thinking about
Speaker:muscle, muscle, muscle, you have to be thinking about protein. You
Speaker:have to be thinking about how you need to be
Speaker:feeding your muscles and feeding your body. And so forget about the
Speaker:extreme diets because if you are extreme dieting, you're
Speaker:there's no way that you're getting enough protein or enough
Speaker:healthy fats or fiber or things that you need in order to
Speaker:nourish healthy healthy muscle in your body.
Speaker:And I would like to add to that that we had a fantastic
Speaker:conversation, and people go back to this episode many times.
Speaker:Episode six, because you were the first guest of mine
Speaker:on A Call for Love. And we talked about orthorexia,
Speaker:healthy eating gone bad, and it talks
Speaker:all about this. It's really a brilliant,
Speaker:episode. So I will put that link in the show notes, but it's
Speaker:A Call for Love episode six.
Speaker:Beautiful. Thank you. And, yeah, it's it's not only is
Speaker:it harmful for our bodies to be that extreme, but it's
Speaker:harmful for the mind. Yeah. And that's exactly what Linda is referencing in that
Speaker:episode six. Okay. Number eight, excessive
Speaker:cardio. I can't tell you. I'm at the gym almost
Speaker:every day, and those cardio machines are
Speaker:packed. The weight area,
Speaker:less so. Okay? Interesting.
Speaker:Women, I know we know cardio. We know how to do the cardio.
Speaker:We know how to walk on a treadmill. We know how to get onto a
Speaker:stair machine or an elliptical.
Speaker:That's that's good. That's important. We have to do that
Speaker:for our heart health. But to my last point around
Speaker:building muscle, forget about fat loss. We were all trained
Speaker:and told that we need to do excess cardio in order to reduce
Speaker:fat. Park that notion. In fact, don't even park
Speaker:it. Like, lose it. Lose that. Think about
Speaker:protein. So you're not building protein by going on
Speaker:the cardio machines. K? You're gonna do that when
Speaker:you walk over to the stack of weights or you use your own free
Speaker:weights at home or you use the machines at the gym and you
Speaker:start actually lifting weight to do resistance
Speaker:training to start to build muscle in your body. So important.
Speaker:Can't talk enough about it. So important. And I'm not a personal trainer. I'm
Speaker:a yoga teacher. Like you, Linda.
Speaker:Yoga also plays a role in our body, and in
Speaker:our life. I think it's super important. Yeah. But we
Speaker:need we need that resistance training. So what I like to
Speaker:tell people is forget about that excess of cardio, get put on
Speaker:your running shoes, go for a walk every day. Get,
Speaker:I recommend, eight to 12,000 steps a day. Yes. I've
Speaker:actually been doing 12,000 for the last two weeks now, the the
Speaker:now that the weather's turned nice. Excellent. My body feels so
Speaker:good. And try to do strength training two to three
Speaker:days a week and still get your yoga in. I would say if you
Speaker:can get yoga in two to three days a week as well, your body is
Speaker:going to feel amazing. Start small. Work your way
Speaker:up to that. But that that should be everyone's goal in that.
Speaker:It's a good it's it's great to have a goal to reach towards, you
Speaker:know? Exactly. If you don't aim high, you can't you
Speaker:can't go in that direction. Beautiful. So number nine. Number
Speaker:nine, toxins in products. So I would be remiss if I
Speaker:didn't talk about the toxins and the harmful things that those
Speaker:do to our menopausal bodies. Not only menopausal,
Speaker:but also for, anyone that has,
Speaker:teenagers at home, when their bodies are developing or
Speaker:even babies, heaven forbid, they're being exposed to these toxins.
Speaker:We know that we are exposed to thousands of toxins
Speaker:every day in our personal care products, in our home cleaning
Speaker:products, our laundry products. And that's that's
Speaker:just in our home. Like, we're not even talking about when we open the
Speaker:front door and we walk outside and we're exposed to fumes and things
Speaker:like that. So start at home. Start small. Start
Speaker:reading labels. Start seeing what's in all the things
Speaker:that you're using. Start to become familiar with
Speaker:some of the words on labels. There's, so
Speaker:many clean brands out there. So, obviously, I'm passionate about
Speaker:this because I am a clean, skincare formulator
Speaker:with my own brand, but just start making those
Speaker:swaps. Start being aware of what they're doing.
Speaker:The last thing we need when we are in menopause is anything
Speaker:that is what we call xenoestrogenic.
Speaker:So xeno is with an x if you wanna Google that. So
Speaker:xenoestrogens xenoestrogens are those toxins that
Speaker:we are exposed to in products. And
Speaker:they do, alter our estrogen. They
Speaker:do mimic estrogen in the body, is the way that they
Speaker:work. So they bind to the same estrogen receptors that we
Speaker:have all over our body and they can cause a lot of health
Speaker:issues up to and including, breast
Speaker:cancer so and other cancers so we
Speaker:really need to be really aware of what
Speaker:we're buying and what we're using. Excellent.
Speaker:Point number two. One, which is super important.
Speaker:Super important. You know, we used to
Speaker:perhaps, some of us used to be able to,
Speaker:you know, look at ourselves in the mirror and we go, oh, I don't like
Speaker:what I'm seeing. That's it. I'm gonna, you know, do everything
Speaker:that I just mentioned from one to nine. I'm gonna cut carbs, and I'm gonna
Speaker:add more cardio, and I'm gonna do all these things. You
Speaker:know, even back in the day, maybe even going and saying, I'm gonna
Speaker:go buy some diet pill that's gonna speed up my
Speaker:metabolism because I don't like what I'm seeing.
Speaker:This is so negative. And so a negative
Speaker:body image, it it increases our stress and it
Speaker:increases our our ability to self
Speaker:sabotage ourselves. So the alternative is
Speaker:showing ourselves compassion and acceptance.
Speaker:And like like you started with, Linda, it's
Speaker:seeing menopause more as an invitation, not a
Speaker:punishment. And, you know, we just really need to
Speaker:start finding one small thing. Even
Speaker:if it's so hard for you to do this. Find one
Speaker:small thing that you're grateful for about your body. Like,
Speaker:if you're listening to this podcast, maybe you hit pause and you
Speaker:just sit here right now and you just think about what's one thing that I
Speaker:can be grateful for. And I even challenge the listeners. Every time you
Speaker:I love that. Yes. And so my all day, baby. But,
Speaker:anyways, whatever like, let's counteract the negative with the positive.
Speaker:Alright. Well, thank you for sharing those. Those are really
Speaker:key takeaways. Mhmm. Yeah.
Speaker:Yeah. Yeah. And, you know, it's all about grace over guilt.
Speaker:Right? So we can guilt ourselves till the cows come
Speaker:home around, you know, what we do and how we
Speaker:treat our body. But until we start showing it a little bit more
Speaker:grace, we're we're really not gonna
Speaker:see the impact of some of these swaps. So these 10 things
Speaker:that I've talked about, you're now swapping these habits.
Speaker:And I know that habit change takes time. I
Speaker:know it's going to take consistency is super
Speaker:important. So, you know, I tell people,
Speaker:you have to do these things for at least thirty days. Like,
Speaker:at least thirty days, maybe longer. Right? So
Speaker:and and now is the time to start. So today is
Speaker:always a good day to start. Don't wait for, you know, January
Speaker:1 or, you know, wait for some other wait for a birthday. Like,
Speaker:do it now. Alright, Jody. Now I asked this of my
Speaker:guests, and, you know, a call for love is about noticing how
Speaker:you're living. Are you in a place of stress, fear, and anxiety?
Speaker:And if that is the case, then how do you shift? How do you shift
Speaker:to a higher vibration, like, of more
Speaker:care for your mind, body, and soul, and that's a call for love.
Speaker:So how do you invite a call for love in your life when
Speaker:you are out of alignment with your Higher Self?
Speaker:So for me, I feel it pretty
Speaker:instantly. I think when I'm out of alignment, I feel it in
Speaker:my body. Like, viscerally, I feel it in my body,
Speaker:in my back, in joint pain, things like that that are going
Speaker:on, in my body. And so I like to
Speaker:shut everything off. I like to get out in nature. I love
Speaker:walking. I'm very lucky to live in Oakville with all the green space
Speaker:and trails nearby. So I'll get out in nature
Speaker:or I'll get near water. So if I can get on an
Speaker:airplane, get to a beach, get in the water, feel the sand in my
Speaker:toes, those are the ways that I invite
Speaker:more love and peace and calm into my body. Yeah,
Speaker:I feel that from you. Yeah, really beautiful. And because you walk
Speaker:eight to 12,000 steps a day. I
Speaker:sure do. And I love it. And, yeah, it's
Speaker:it's it's what works for my body. It's what keeps my pain
Speaker:at bay and keeps my mind nice and
Speaker:clear and fresh. Oh, beautiful. Well, thank you for
Speaker:sharing that with the listeners. And so, Jodi, how can
Speaker:people reach you? So they can
Speaker:reach me a couple of different ways. So through social media,
Speaker:I'm jodi. Wellpreneur on
Speaker:Instagram or on
Speaker:Instagram, that's for my skin care business. The first one is for my nutrition
Speaker:business. And I work out of the Bronte Wellness
Speaker:Boutique which is in Oakville, Ontario, Canada.
Speaker:And so if you're not in that general vicinity and can't come
Speaker:for an in person consultation with me, you could always do it
Speaker:virtually, which is lovely. So if you head over to
Speaker:berontiwellness.ca, that's the website, and
Speaker:you can find me on their website, and you can book in with me
Speaker:there. We do have a complimentary
Speaker:meet and greet, so you can have, meet and greet with me and
Speaker:just see if I'm the right practitioner to help you to meet your health
Speaker:goals. Excellent. Well I'm sure there will be
Speaker:people reaching out, and I want to thank you because this is such an important
Speaker:conversation, and I love that Minute a Paws is an
Speaker:invitation. It's an invitation to shift how we've always
Speaker:lived, become better, to become better versions
Speaker:of ourselves. And yeah, there's a grieving process
Speaker:losing what we once were, but you know that's the cycle of life
Speaker:and what we resist persists. So let's
Speaker:all embrace this new stage for
Speaker:ourselves and for those we care about because it's going to
Speaker:happen whether we like it or not. Absolutely.
Speaker:And so we can either fight it, you know, like trying
Speaker:to fight going over a waterfall, or in trying to
Speaker:swim upstream, or you can go with the flow. Right? So that's the
Speaker:analogy that I like to think of. And while it might not
Speaker:be easy, you know, going with the flow is certainly a lot
Speaker:easier than trying to swim upstream. Yeah. So thank you.
Speaker:Thank you, everyone, for listening to the end. And from my
Speaker:heart to yours, namaste. Namaste.